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Crystal Hefner Details “Robotic, Odd” and AWFUL Sex with Hugh Hefner on January 25, 2024 at 8:02 pm The Hollywood Gossip

Published

12 months ago

January 25, 2024

Crystal Hefner has opened up about something both very personal and, unfortunately, very painful.

On Tuesday, the former centerfold released her memoir, Only Say Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Myself.

Of note across the Internet in the wake of this release, Crystal delves into what her sex life was like with Hugh Hefner, the founder of the aforementioned men’s magazine… who sounds like a rather terrible human being.

Hugh Hefner and Crystal Hefner attend Playboy Mansion’s Annual Halloween Bash at The Playboy Mansion on October 25, 2014 in Los Angeles. (Photo by Charley Gallay/Getty Images for Playboy)

Crystal — who married Hefner in December 2012 and who was still his wife when Hefner died in September 2017 — writes at one point about how she snagged an invite to The Playboy Mansion and was then selected to make her way to Hefner’s bedroom.

Once there, Crystal says she noticed a chandelier covered in underwear — “like some kind of carousel of trophies” — while a great deal of adult entertainment played on four televisions around the bed.

She said she was told to change into silk pajamas… and then Hefner pulled out a locked box with a joint in it.

Crystal pretended to take a puff and then?

“He grabbed a bottle of baby oil off the nightstand and oiled himself up. Then he looked up at the four of us and waited.”

Hugh Hefner and Crystal Harris arrives at the TCM Classic Film Festival’s gala opening night world premiere of the newly restored film “A Star Is Born” at Grauman’s Chinese Theatre on April 22, 2010 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty Images)

Continued Crystal Hefner:

“He gave an impatient, questioning smile and opened his hands in a gesture that suggested, ‘Who’s first? Let’s get a move on.”

Ever since his death, more and more first-hand reports have come out about Hugh Hefner, with numerous ex-partners saying he pushed drugs on them and tried to control their every move.

In 2022, long-time girlfriend Holly Madison referred to the Playboy Mansion as toxic.

Hugh Hefner and Crystal Harris arrive at Stansted Airport on June 2, 2011 in Stansted, England. (Photo by Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)

According to Crystal in her book, “there were no condoms in sight.”

Nor was there any “kissing or romance or intimacy” involved in the “odd and robotic” love-making.

She felt it was “like Hef was just going through the motions of something that had once been fun and sexy,” before saying she was the second woman to mount him that first night.

“My body wasn’t ready, but it didn’t matter because of all the baby oil. I was very much outside my body watching the show,” she writes.

“Above the bed was a huge mirror, and while I was on top of Hugh Hefner having sex with him for the first time, he didn’t look into my eyes once. He stared to the side and up, watching the view from above in the mirror.”

Crystal Hefner attends the Premiere of ‘My Truth: The Rape Of Two Coreys’ at Directors Guild Of America on March 09, 2020 in Los Angeles. (Getty Images)

This all sounds so nauseating.

“There was nothing sexy about it,” Crystal continued. “This wasn’t about making love. It was about power and control and leverage. It was a performance. I was auditioning for a part.”

At one point, Hefner brought out some sex toys and the women around him pretended to use them.

Shortly afterward?

Hefner “suddenly” waved them off his loers and “grabbed himself to finish the job,” Crystal writes.

She described the final moments as Hef “moaning and flailing and flopping like a fish trying to get back to water” — saying “his face contorted as if he was in pain” and calling it, “the strangest five seconds of my life.”

Hugh Hefner poses at Playboy’s 60th Anniversary special event on January 16, 2014 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Charley Gallay/Getty Images for Playboy)

As for that baby oil?

“We were all getting infections from the baby oil — it wasn’t supposed to be used as lube,” says Crystal.

“I tried to tell him … but you couldn’t really tell him anything he didn’t want to hear. We tried to replace the baby oil with lube, but when we weren’t looking, he would always switch it back.”

In general, Crystal felt Hefner “had never taken a moment in his entire life to figure out how to please someone else,” saying that for someone who was “the poster boy of sexual liberation,” she never left the bedroom feeling “very liberated” herself.

Only Say Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Myself is available now wherever books are sold.

Crystal Hefner Details “Robotic, Odd” and AWFUL Sex with Hugh Hefner was originally published on The Hollywood Gossip.

Crystal Hefner has released a memoir in which she delves into what it was like to sleep with the founder of Playboy. It sounds terrible.
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TikTok Ban Drives 216% Rise in U.S. Users Learning Chinese on Duolingo

Published

7 hours ago

January 16, 2025

Bolanle Media Staff

Duolingo has reported a remarkable 216% increase in U.S. users learning Mandarin Chinese, coinciding with the impending ban on TikTok, set to take effect on January 19, 2025. This surge is attributed to many TikTok users migrating to a new Chinese social media platform called RedNote (also known as Xiaohongshu), which defaults to Mandarin as its primary language. As TikTok users seek alternatives amidst concerns over data privacy and app availability, they are turning to RedNote, prompting a cultural exchange that has driven interest in learning Chinese.

The spike in Mandarin learners began around mid-January, aligning with the growing popularity of RedNote among former TikTok users. Duolingo’s marketing team has actively engaged with this trend on social media, humorously acknowledging the phenomenon with posts like “Learning Mandarin out of spite? You’re not alone”.

Additionally, Duolingo has seen a 36% increase in downloads in the U.S., reflecting heightened consumer demand for language learning resources as users adapt to the new social media landscape.

The transition from TikTok to RedNote has not been without challenges, as some users have encountered technical issues during registration and account suspensions.

Nevertheless, this shift underscores a significant demand for social networking experiences that resonate with American users while navigating the complexities of Chinese platforms.

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TikTok’s Final Countdown: The Sunday Shutdown

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23 hours ago

January 16, 2025

Bolanle Media Staff

As the clock ticks down to January 19, 2025, TikTok users in the United States are bracing for a significant disruption. The app, which boasts approximately 170 million users in the country, faces a potential ban that could render it non-functional by this Sunday. Here’s what you need to know about the impending ban and its implications.

Key Details of the Ban

The anticipated ban comes amid ongoing national security concerns regarding TikTok’s Chinese ownership. Government officials have raised alarms about the possibility of sensitive user data being accessed by Chinese authorities. As a result, the app is expected to be removed from digital app stores, effectively cutting off new downloads and updates.

What Will Happen?

Removal from App Stores: On January 19, TikTok will likely be taken down from platforms like the Apple App Store and Google Play Store.
Existing Users Affected: Current users may find that their app becomes non-functional, losing access to new content creation and updates.
Data Preservation Challenges: Users may face difficulties in preserving their data and content as the deadline approaches.

Recommendations for Users

In light of the impending ban, TikTok users should take proactive steps to safeguard their content and data:

Download Personal Data: Users can access their TikTok settings to download their data before it’s too late.
Export Saved Videos: Save any cherished videos or content that you wish to keep.
Backup Content: Consider backing up your videos on alternative platforms.
Explore Alternatives: As TikTok faces its potential shutdown, consider migrating to other platforms such as:

Instagram Reels
YouTube Shorts
Lemon8
Triller

Potential Scenarios

While the ban is set for this Sunday, there are several scenarios that could unfold in the coming days:

Last-Minute Legal Intervention: There remains a possibility of a legal challenge that could delay or halt the ban.
Temporary Injunction: Courts may issue a temporary injunction allowing TikTok to operate while legal proceedings continue.
Complete Shutdown: If no intervention occurs, users will face a complete shutdown of the platform in the U.S. market.

Emotional Impact on Users

The potential ban is not just a technical disruption; it carries significant emotional weight for many users. Content creators who have built their brands on TikTok may experience economic repercussions as they lose a primary platform for engagement. Additionally, the shift could lead to broader changes in the social media landscape as users seek new avenues for expression and connection.

Conclusion

As we approach this critical deadline, TikTok users should remain vigilant and prepared for possible changes. Whether through legal maneuvers or a complete shutdown, the future of TikTok in the United States hangs in the balance. Stay tuned for real-time updates as we navigate this evolving situation together.

Entertainment

Justin Beiber Unfollows Usher

Published

2 days ago

January 14, 2025

Bolanle Media Staff

In a surprising turn of events, Justin Bieber has unfollowed his longtime mentor Usher on Instagram, sending shockwaves through the music industry and sparking intense speculation about their once-unbreakable relationship.

A Mentorship Defined by Musical History

For over a decade, Usher Raymond was more than just a mentor to Justin Bieber – he was the architect of the young star’s career. Discovering Bieber as a teenage YouTube sensation, Usher played a pivotal role in launching the pop star’s global trajectory, personally guiding him through the treacherous waters of early fame.

The Social Media Bombshell

What began as a simple click – an unfollow on Instagram – has become a potential watershed moment in their professional relationship. Sources close to the situation suggest this is more than a casual social media gesture, hinting at deeper underlying tensions.

The Broader Context

The unfollow comes at a particularly sensitive time in the music industry, coinciding with ongoing investigations and allegations surrounding major music executives. Notably, the recent controversies involving Sean “Diddy” Combs have created an atmosphere of heightened scrutiny and potential revelations.

Possible Motivations Behind the Unfollow

Experts and industry insiders speculate about several potential reasons:

Professional Distancing: Bieber may be strategically repositioning himself in the music landscape
Personal Conflict: Unresolved tensions that have been brewing beneath the surface
Industry Dynamics: A broader statement about mentorship and power structures in the music world

The Ripple Effect

This single action has ignited widespread discussion about:

The nature of mentor-protégé relationships
The evolving dynamics of music industry connections
The power of social media in revealing professional relationships

What Comes Next?

As of now, neither Bieber nor Usher has publicly commented on the situation. Both remain significant figures in the music industry, with careers that have been intertwined since Bieber’s early days.

The Lingering Questions

Is this a temporary rift or a permanent break?
What underlying tensions might have led to this moment?
How will this impact their respective careers?

Conclusion

While a social media unfollow might seem trivial, in the world of celebrity and music, it can signal profound shifts in relationships and professional dynamics. The music world watches and waits for further developments.

Stay tuned for updates on this developing story.