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Kalani Faagata and Dallas Nuez Relationship DOOMED? 90 Day Fiance Fans Weigh In on November 3, 2023 at 3:07 pm The Hollywood Gossip

This week, Kalani Faagata went Instagram Official with boyfriend Dallas Nuez. She waited a long time for this.
Not only did fans get to see Dallas’ face reveal, but Kalani confirmed that they’re still dating — more than 10 months after filming 90 Day: The Last Resort.
Many of Kalani’s fans are cheering her on. They want her to find happiness, and it looks like she has.
But a number of 90 Day Fiance fans aren’t so pleased. Some say that this Dallas thing is doomed. Others say that Kalani’s behavior disgusts them. Why?
Kalani Faagata explains to her castmates that her husband didn’t only cheat once. He cheated all along. By her count, about twelve times. (Image Credit: TLC)
After years of misery, Kalani Faagata has found a measure of happiness.
Now that 90 Day: The Last Resort has aired all of her erstwhile marriage’s dirty laundry (or enough of it, anyway), she can finally post Dallas Nuez to her timeline.
As Kalani herself said on Halloween, she waited a year to go public with this romance. But the way that he makes her feel (by treating her like an actual person) was worth the wait.
At the very end of October 2023, Kalani Faagata officially shared boyfriend Dallas Nuez on her Instagram Story. She had waited years to find this happiness. Good for her! (Image Credit: Instagram)
This hard-fought happiness was a long time coming
It’s not just that Kalani waited until she wouldn’t be “spoiling” her on-screen storyline before posting.
She waded through years of humiliation, abuse, and nightmarish in-laws.
Now, Kalani is getting a fresh start. And things are going to get so much better from here.
On 90 Day: The Last Resort, Kalani Faagata and Asuelu Pulaa sat down for an emergency therapy session. (Image Credit: TLC)
Fans don’t really know that much about Dallas Nuez. He is not a public figure, and only this week did he post his actual face to his Instagram Story.
But one thing that we do know is that he’s a better partner to Kalani than Asuelu.
It isn’t just that he’s better in bed (because he actually cares about Kalani). He is also attentive and affectionate and treats Kalani like a person and a partner.
On October 31, 2023, Dallas Nuez revealed his face on Instagram for the first time. He did not explain who the people with him on his Instagram Story photo were, but that’s okay. (Image Credit: Instagram)
Criticisms
Kalani’s critics say that she is jumping into this whole Dallas situation too quickly.
It’s not that they think that the relationship is sudden. It began as a “Hall Pass” and turned into a real romance.
But they worry that this is a rebound — that Kalani needs time to figure out what she wants after Asuelu before moving on.
After she unblocked her hall-pass-turned-boyfriend, Kalani Faagata spent the night away from the resort on 90 Day: The Last Resort. Good for her! (Image Credit: TLC)
Other critics are fuming, accusing Kalani of being “selfish” by dating Dallas — or anyone.
Their argument is that she should focus upon her children. Kalani has two young sons, Oliver and Kennedy.
In their minds, this divorce process is going to be challenging enough for the boys without Kalani going on dates.
In this precious beach photo, 90 Day Fiance star Kalani Faagata cradles sons, Oliver and Kennedy. (Photo Credit: Instagram)
Meanwhile, other critics are saying that Kalani and Dallas won’t last.
Sure, the spinoff filmed in January, and she and Dallas were an item even before that.
But they identify this as a rebound, and worry that the euphoria of post-Asuelu dating will fade and Kalani will have to move on.
On Episode 8 of 90 Day: The Last Resort, Kalani Faagata opened up about how her husband cheated on her all along — while she was pregnant, before he came to live with her, and as recently as trying to cheat online the year before. (Image Credit: TLC)
Some even say that Kalani wronged Asuelu
Asuelu cheated on Kalani again and again and again. By her count, he cheated on her 12 times … and those are just the times that she knows about.
That was why Asuelu suggested the “hall pass” to Kalani, assuming that she’d never take it. But she did, and she met Dallas.
But some on social media have called her a “big disappointment to women” for taking the hall pass instead of just dumping Asuelu then and there. In fact, some have gone so far as to say that Kalani was “cheating” herself.
Kalani Faagata explains that husband Asuelu Pulaa became upset when she took the “hall pass” that he offered her in the first place. (Image Credit: TLC)
Um … just for the record, if your spouse gives you a “hall pass” in this context, using it is not cheating.
We’re reminded of people who think that open relationships or even closed polyamorous relationships are “cheating.” I’ve seen brainrotten takes on social media that say that a couple having a threesome are both “cheating” on each other.
But words mean things. Asuelu was desperate enough to keep Kalani from dumping him for yet another cheating incident that he offered it to her. He gave her permission, and she went with it.
Wearing a yellow blouse that is just shy of becoming chartreuse, Kalani Faagata watches two 90 Day: The Last Resort castmates reconcile. (Image Credit: TLC)
Admittedly, Kalani definitely took the hall pass further than Asuelu expected or intended.
But then, he didn’t expect her to actually do it in the first place. He thought that she’d just eventually go back to letting him be her nightmare manchild husband who constantly disappointed her.
So we could see this as a bit of a gray area. But pretending that what Kalani did with Dallas is the same as what Asuelu did with at least a dozen side pieces is patently absurd.
Kalani Faagata admits that she feels nervous to learn who else will be on the 90 Day: The Last Resort cast with her. (Image Credit: TLC)
What’s with the slut-shaming?
Obviously, slut-shaming is always bad.
Sex is not a neutral activity — but having sex and experiencing sexual desires does not have any moral weight to it. It’s like eating or sleeping. And, like eating and sleeping, some of the worst people alive have ascribed moral value to how people do it.
Kalani could sleep with 1,000 men or none and not deserve any condemnation. If anything, I’d want to congratulate her.
Liz Woods cheers on Kalani Faagata, offering her a high five on 90 Day: The Last Resort. (Image Credit: TLC)
But, in reality, Kalani has only slept with two people. She’s not a slut by any measure. Be serious.
Not “two people in the past few years.” We mean two people … ever.
So not only is slut-shaming wrong, but it also wouldn’t even apply here.
Kalani Faagata and Asuelu Pulaa sit side-by-side in the 90 Day: The Last Resort superteaser trailer. (Image Credit: TLC)
Kalani isn’t being a bad mom
People saying that Kalani “should focus on her kids” instead of dating are doing a disservice to moms everywhere.
Single moms can date. They don’t have to, not by any means, but they can.
Kalani’s not going to leave her boys home alone while she dates or whatever. She does not have to remain dutifully single until they graduate high school.
In this moment from 90 Day: The Last Resort, Asuelu Pulaa displays a surprising amount of self-awareness. (Image Credit: TLC)
A lot of these criticisms are likely rooted in misogyny.
Especially when it comes to suggesting that Kalani, as a mother, should not ever get to experience romance.
This is unfortunately not unexpected from this notoriously misogynistic fanbase.
“Everything they say is true,” Asuelu Pulaa tearfully confesses about his years of cheating. He has spent the entire relationship betraying his wife’s trust. (Image Credit: TLC)
It is also so important for us to remember that Asuelu is worse than Kalani shared on the show.
While this season was airing, Kalani accused Asuelu of spousal rape on Instagram. This is how their second child was conceived.
Sexual assault is much more serious than any amount of cheating. Kalani is, as always, being way too nice to Asuelu.
In October of 2023, Kalani Faagata responded to vicious and violent threats with a painful revelation. She described instances of sexual assault that she has experienced during her marriage. (Image Credit: Instagram)
Is her Dallas era doomed?
Maybe this is a rebound romance. It certainly began before her marriage had (formally) ended, so the timeline fits.
And you know what? Maybe, after the honeymoon era is over, Kalani and Dallas will part ways.
Our response to that is … so? Relationships end. And not every romance has to be a stepping stone to a long-term romance. Sometimes, people just date. That’s life.
Speaking to the confessional camera on 90 Day: The Last Resort, Kalani Faagata explains her disinterest in her husband. (Image Credit: TLC)
There’s also the criticism that Kalani shouldn’t have taken the hall pass at all.
These critics aren’t saying that it’s “cheating.” They just say that she should have dumped him then and there.
Well … Kalani did very much dump Asuelu. We all saw it play out on camera.
“I think Kalani give Asuelu enough chances,” Yara Zaya assesses accurately. (Image Credit: TLC)
Besides, given Kalani’s upbringing and the pressures that were on her to make the marriage work, maybe she just wasn’t ready.
Sometimes, people need to take baby steps before they are ready to take a big, important leap.
Kalani is a real person, with real feelings. Not everyone is going to agree with her choices — but plenty of people are happy for her right now.
Kalani Faagata and Dallas Nuez Relationship DOOMED? 90 Day Fiance Fans Weigh In was originally published on The Hollywood Gossip.
This week, Kalani Faagata went Instagram Official with boyfriend Dallas Nuez. She waited a long time for this. Not only …
Kalani Faagata and Dallas Nuez Relationship DOOMED? 90 Day Fiance Fans Weigh In was originally published on The Hollywood Gossip.
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How to Find Your Voice as a Filmmaker

Every filmmaker aspires to create projects that are not only memorable but also uniquely their own. Finding your creative voice is a journey that requires self-reflection, bold choices, and an unwavering commitment to your vision. Here’s how to uncover your style, take risks, and craft original work that stands out.
1. Discovering Your Voice: Understanding Your Influences
Your unique voice begins with recognizing what inspires you.
- Step 1: Reflect on the themes, genres, or emotions that consistently draw your interest. Are you inspired by human resilience, surreal worlds, or untold histories?
- Step 2: Study the work of filmmakers you admire. Analyze what resonates with you—their use of color, pacing, or narrative techniques.
Tip: Combine what you love with your personal experiences to create a lens that only you can offer.
Example: Wes Anderson’s whimsical, symmetrical worlds stem from his love of classic storytelling and his unique visual style.
Takeaway: Start with what moves you, then add your personal touch.
2. Taking Creative Risks: Experiment and Evolve
To stand out, you must be willing to challenge conventions and explore new territory.
- Experimentation: Try unusual storytelling structures, such as non-linear timelines or silent sequences.
- Collaboration: Work with people outside your usual circle to gain fresh perspectives.
- Feedback: Screen your projects for trusted peers and be open to constructive criticism.
Example: Jordan Peele blended horror with social commentary in Get Out, creating a genre-defying film that captivated audiences.
Takeaway: Risks are an opportunity for growth, even if they don’t always succeed.
3. Telling Original Stories: Start with Authenticity
Original projects resonate when they stem from a place of truth.
- Draw from Experience: Incorporate elements of your own life, culture, or worldview into your stories.
- Explore the “Why”: Ask yourself why this story matters to you and how it connects with your audience.
- Avoid Trends: Focus on timeless narratives rather than chasing current fads.
Example: Greta Gerwig’s Lady Bird was deeply personal, based on her experiences growing up in Sacramento. The film’s authenticity made it universally relatable.
Takeaway: The more personal the story, the more it resonates.
4. Developing Your Style: Consistency Meets Creativity
Style is not just about visuals—it’s how you tell a story across all elements of filmmaking.
- Visual Language: Experiment with colors, lighting, and framing to create a distinct aesthetic.
- Narrative Voice: Develop consistent themes or motifs across your projects.
- Sound Design: Use music, sound effects, and silence to evoke specific emotions.
Example: Quentin Tarantino’s use of dialogue, pop culture references, and bold music choices makes his work instantly recognizable.
Takeaway: Your style should be intentional, evolving as you grow but always recognizable as yours.
5. Staying True to Yourself: Building Confidence in Your Vision
The filmmaking process is full of challenges, but staying true to your voice is essential.
- Stay Authentic: Trust your instincts, even if your ideas seem unconventional.
- Adapt Without Compromise: Be open to feedback but maintain your core vision.
- Celebrate Your Growth: View every project, successful or not, as a stepping stone in your creative journey.
Example: Ava DuVernay shifted from public relations to filmmaking, staying true to her voice in films like Selma and 13th, which focus on social justice.
Takeaway: Your voice evolves with every project, so embrace the process.
Conclusion: From Idea to Screen, Your Voice is Your Superpower
Finding your voice as a filmmaker takes time, courage, and commitment. By exploring your influences, taking risks, and staying true to your perspective, you’ll craft stories that not only stand out but also resonate deeply with your audience.
Bolanle Media is excited to announce our partnership with The Newbie Film Academy to offer comprehensive courses designed specifically for aspiring screenwriters. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to enhance your skills, our resources will provide you with the tools and knowledge needed to succeed in the competitive world of screenwriting. Join us today to unlock your creative potential and take your first steps toward crafting compelling stories that resonate with audiences. Let’s turn your ideas into impactful scripts together!
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When “Professional” Means Silent

Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo did not walk onto the BAFTA stage expecting to become a case study in how the industry mishandles racism in real time. They were there to present, hit their marks, and do what award shows have always asked of Black talent: bring charisma, sell the moment, keep the night moving.
Instead, while they stood under the lights, a man in the audience shouted the N‑word. The word carried across the theater and through the broadcast. The cameras kept rolling. The teleprompter kept scrolling. And the two men at the center of it did what they’ve been trained their entire careers to do: they kept going.
The incident was shocking, but the pattern around it was familiar.
The Apologies That Came After the Credits
In the days that followed, BAFTA released a public apology. The organization said it took responsibility for putting its guests “in a very difficult situation,” acknowledged that the word used carries deep trauma, and apologized to Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo. It also praised them for their “dignity and professionalism” in continuing to present.
The man who shouted the slur, a Tourette syndrome campaigner, explained that his outbursts are involuntary and expressed remorse for the pain his tic caused. That context about disability matters. Any honest conversation has to hold space for the reality that not every harmful word is spoken with intent.
But context doesn’t erase impact. For people watching at home—and especially for the men on that stage—the sequence was still the same: a slur detonated in the room, the show continued as if nothing happened, and the institutional response arrived later, in carefully crafted language.
Delroy Lindo summed up the experience by saying he and Jordan “did what we had to do,” and added that he wished someone from the organization had spoken with them directly afterward. That gap between polished statements and real‑time care is exactly where trust breaks down.
Who Is “Professionalism” Really Protecting?
Strip away the PR and a hard truth emerges: almost all of the pressure fell on the people who were harmed, not the people in charge.
On stage, “professionalism” meant Jordan and Lindo were expected to stay composed so the room wouldn’t be uncomfortable. Off stage, “professionalism” meant the institution focused on managing optics after the fact instead of disrupting the show in the moment.
That raises a question the industry rarely wants to confront:
When we call for professionalism, whose comfort are we protecting?
For Black artists, professionalism has too often meant:
- Take the hit and keep your face neutral.
- Don’t make it awkward for the audience or the brand.
- Don’t risk being labeled “difficult,” no matter how blatant the disrespect.
It’s easy to admire that composure. It’s harder to admit that the system routinely demands it from the very people absorbing the harm.
If It Can Happen There, It Can Happen Anywhere
This didn’t happen in a chaotic open mic or an unsupervised live stream. It happened at one of the most carefully produced film ceremonies in the world—an event with run‑of‑show documents, stage managers, and communication channels in everyone’s ears.
If an incident like this can unfold there without a pause, it can unfold anywhere:
- At a regional festival Q&A when an audience member crosses a line.
- At a comedy show when someone heckles with a “joke” that’s really just a slur.
- At a film panel where the only Black creator on stage gets a loaded question and is expected to smile through it.
The honest question for anyone who runs events isn’t “How could BAFTA let this happen?” It’s “What would we actually do if it happened in our room?”
Would your moderator know they have explicit permission to stop everything?
Would your team know who goes to the stage, who speaks to the audience, and who stays with the person targeted?
Or would you also be scrambling to get the language right in a statement tomorrow?

Redefining Professionalism in 2026
If this moment is going to mean anything, the definition of professionalism has to change.
Professionalism cannot just be “don’t lose your cool on stage.” It has to include the courage and structure to protect the people on that stage when something goes wrong.
A better standard looks like this:
- Pause the show when serious harm happens. A clean program is not more important than a person’s dignity.
- Acknowledge it in the room. Name what happened in clear terms instead of pretending it didn’t occur and quietly editing it later.
- Center the person targeted. Check on them, give them options, and let their comfort—not the schedule—drive the next move.
- Plan the response before you need it. Build safety and harassment protocols into your festival, awards show, or live event so no one is improvising under pressure.
Sometimes the most professional thing you can do is allow a little discomfort in the room. It signals that human beings matter more than the illusion of seamlessness.
The Standard Going Forward
Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo did what they have always been rewarded for doing: they protected the show. They shouldn’t have had to.
True respect for their craft and humanity would have looked like a room that moved to protect them instead—stopping the script, resetting the energy, and making it clear that the problem wasn’t their reaction, but the harm they’d just absorbed.
No performer should be asked to choose between their dignity and their career. So if you work anywhere in this industry—onstage or behind the scenes—this incident quietly handed you a new baseline:
Call it out.
Pause the show.
Back the person who was harmed.
That’s what professionalism should mean in 2026.
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These Movies Aren’t “True Crime for Fun”

When scandals and cover‑ups dominate the timeline, it’s tempting to process them the same way we process everything else online: as content.
A headline becomes a meme, a victim becomes a character, and a years‑long story of abuse or corruption gets flattened into a 30‑second clip. In that kind of environment, it matters what we choose to watch—and how we watch it.
Some films lean into shock and spectacle. Others slow us down, asking us to sit with the systems that make these stories possible in the first place.

This article is about that second group.
Below are three films that are difficult, necessary, and deeply relevant when we’re surrounded by conversations about power, silence, and who actually gets held accountable. They’re not “true crime for fun.” They are stories about people who push back: journalists digging through archives, lawyers refusing to look away, and insiders who decide that telling the truth matters more than staying comfortable.
Why movies about accountability matter right now
There’s a difference between consuming tragedy and engaging with it.
Scroll culture trains us to treat everything as a quick hit: outrage, reaction, move on. But systemic abuse and corruption don’t work on a 24‑hour cycle. They live in sealed files, non‑disclosure agreements, money, and relationships that make it easier to protect those in power than the people they harm. Films that focus on accountability rather than spectacle can do three important things:

- Slow our attention down long enough to see how cover‑ups are built—through policies, reputations, and quiet decisions, not just villains and heroes.
- Give us a closer look at the people trying to break those systems open: reporters, lawyers, whistleblowers, survivors, and community members.
- Help us recognize the patterns so that when a new scandal breaks, we have more than vibes and rumors to work with—we see mechanisms, not just headlines.
With that frame in mind, here are three films that are worth revisiting or discovering for the first time.
Spotlight: following the paper trail
Spotlight follows a small investigative team at a Boston newspaper as they uncover decades of child abuse inside the Catholic Church and the institutional effort to conceal it. It’s not flashy. There are no chase scenes, no “big twist.” The tension comes from phone calls that aren’t returned, doors that stay closed, and documents that may or may not exist. That’s the point.
The power of Spotlight is in its realism. The journalists don’t “win” through a single heroic act; they win through months of stubborn, often boring work—checking names, cross‑referencing records, going back to survivors who have every reason not to trust them. The film shows how systems protect themselves: not only through powerful leaders, but through a culture of looking away, minimizing harm, or deciding that “now isn’t the right time” to publish the truth.
Watching it in the context of any modern scandal is a reminder that revelations don’t come out of nowhere. Someone has to decide that the story is worth their career, their sleep, their peace. Someone has to keep calling.

Dark Waters: the cost of not looking away
In Dark Waters, a corporate defense lawyer discovers that a chemical company has been poisoning a community for years. The more he learns, the less plausible it becomes to stay on the side he’s paid to protect. What starts as a single client and a stack of records becomes a decades‑long fight against a corporation with far more money, influence, and time than he has.
The film is heavy—not because of graphic imagery, but because of the slow realization that this could happen anywhere. It shows how corporate harm doesn’t usually look like one dramatic event; it looks like small decisions, tolerated over time, because changing course would be expensive or embarrassing. Internal memos, risk calculations, and legal strategies become characters in their own right.
What makes Dark Waters important in this moment is the way it illustrates complicity. Very few people in the film set out to be “villains.” Many are simply doing their jobs, protecting their company, or choosing the convenient version of the truth. The story forces us to ask uncomfortable questions about where we draw our own lines—and what it costs to cross them.
Michael Clayton: inside the clean‑up machine
If Spotlight looks at journalism and Dark Waters at corporate litigation, Michael Clayton focuses on the people whose job is to make problems disappear. The title character is a “fixer” at a prestigious law firm: he isn’t in court, and his name isn’t on the building, but he is the person they call when a client’s mess threatens to become public.
The film peels back the layers of how reputations are maintained. We see how language is used to soften reality—harm becomes “exposure,” victims become “plaintiffs,” and the goal is not necessarily to find the truth but to manage it. When Clayton begins to understand the scale of what his client has done, he faces a question at the core of a lot of modern scandals: what happens when someone inside the machine decides not to play their part anymore?
Michael Clayton is especially resonant when conversations online focus on “who knew” and “who helped.” It reminds us that entire careers and infrastructures exist to protect power and to make sure certain stories never catch fire in the first place.
How to watch these films with care
Because these movies deal with abuse, corruption, and betrayal, they can be emotionally heavy—especially for people who have personal experience with similar harms. A few ways to approach them thoughtfully:
- Check in with yourself before you press play. It’s okay to wait until you’re in a better headspace.
- Watch with someone you trust, or plan a debrief after. These aren’t background‑noise films; they merit conversation.
- Remember that survivors’ experiences are not plot devices. If a conversation about the movie starts turning into speculation or jokes about real people, you have permission to pull it back or step away.
The goal isn’t to turn real‑world pain into “content you can feel good about watching.” It’s to understand the systems around that pain more clearly and to keep our empathy intact.
Why sharing this kind of list matters
Sharing watchlists online can feel trivial, but small choices add up. When we recommend movies that take harm seriously, we’re nudging the culture in a different direction than the endless churn of sensational docuseries and clips built around shock value.
A thoughtful share says:
- I’m paying attention to the structures behind the headlines, not just the gossip.
- I’m interested in stories that center accountability, not just spectacle.
- I want our conversations to honor victims and the people fighting for the truth.
If you decide to post about these films, you don’t have to mention any specific scandal or case at all. You can simply say: “If you’re thinking a lot about power, silence, and cover‑ups right now, these are worth your time.” That alone can open up more grounded, respectful conversations than another round of speculation and rumor.
In a feed full of noise, choosing to highlight stories of persistence, investigation, and courage is its own quiet statement.
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