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Shanna Moakler is claiming that Kim Kardashian played a part in the breakdown of her marriage to ex-husband Travis Barker.
During her Wednesday, January 10, appearance on the “Dumb Blonde” podcast, Moakler, 48, revealed that she and Barker, also 48, were “working” on their relationship when she was sent text messages between him and Kardashian, 43, from an anonymous source.
“They were trying to meet up at her sister’s house to f–k,” Moakler said of the alleged exchanges, claiming that when she showed the texts to Barker he “deleted them.” She also claimed that she called Kardashian, who denied the affair and said, “I don’t like white guys.”
Moakler and Barker tied the knot in 2004 and welcomed their kids, son Landon and daughter Alabama, in 2003 and 2005, respectively. They first called it quits in 2006 but continued with an on-off relationship for two years before finalizing their divorce in 2008.
While opening up about pulling the plug on her romance with Barker, Moakler noted that she and the drummer “never recovered” from the drama with Kardashian, which contributed to their split.
Barker, for his part, has denied that anything physical happened between him and Kim — “We went to dinner, we went to lunch,” he wrote in his 2015 memoir, Can I Say: Living Large, Cheating Death, and Drums, Drums, Drums. Barker is now married to Kim’s sister, Kourtney Kardashian. The twosome wed in May 2022.
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Moakler claimed that she and Barker were “working on things” in their relationship when someone “anonymously texted” her the rocker’s alleged conversations with Kim. “They were trying to meet up at her sister’s house to f–k,” she said. Moakler claimed the pair connected when Kim was shooting for Barker’s clothing brand.
“I wanted this relationship to work. I was so in love with him,” she said, claiming she showed Barker the messages and he “deleted” them. “[He] said, ‘I don’t see anything.’”
She also allegedly called Kim. “She just said to me, ‘I don’t like white guys,’” Moakler recalled. “I was like, ‘You’ll f–k anyone to be famous.’ … Travis and I never really recovered from that. I felt stupid.”
Moakler also claimed she “caught” Barker with Lindsay Lohan. “He was living the rockstar life,” she explained. “We always came back to each other.”
Despite their issues, Moakler shared that she wanted to make it work for the family. “I was so in love with him,” she said. “I wanted my children to see their mother and father in love.”
Moakler made headlines in 2021 when Alabama and Landon took to social media to share that Moakler wasn’t currently in their lives. While recalling their estrangement, Moakler said she felt like “parental alienation” began with Landon and Alabama when Barker started dating Kourtney.
“That shit was all getting played out in the press,” she explained, noting that the Kardashian family is a “media machine.”
“I just got f—king hammered. And bullied,” she continued. “And over my f–king kids. Who does that to someone with their own children? F–k you, that family.”
Moakler called the famous brood “disgusting,” noting that she would “never want to know them.”
“I’m tired of people shitting on me. I don’t have to like that f–king family,” she said. “I’m not afraid of them and I don’t like them. I removed myself. I took a step back.”
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After Barker was involved in a September 2008 plane crash that killed four people and left him with third-degree burns on 65 percent of his body, Moakler claimed she was trying to connect the musician with his children when she discovered emails of Barker bashing her parenting style.
“We got his computer … We were hoping him seeing the kids would give him the strength to keep fighting,” she explained. “When I was setting up his computer … I looked in his email and I saw all the emails from the women. That didn’t bother me, but I saw all these comments in these emails about what a shitty mother I was. I couldn’t f–king believe that he was the one behind some of those comments. I went home and cried in my mother’s arms for hours.”
Moakler noted that “looking back now, I probably should’ve licked my wounds until he recovered.”
Moakler shared that a misunderstanding between her and Barker over Moakler’s friendship with Gerard Butler also played a part in their divorce.
“I was going out, getting drunk. I was friends with Gerard Butler,” she said. “I saw him at the club and the paparazzi took pictures of us and made it seem like I was kissing him. I wasn’t. Travis saw it … and we never recovered.”
Moakler said that after the incident, Barker was “convinced” she had cheated on him but the pair ended up “living together” for the benefit of their kids. “We were coparents,” she explained. “We wanted to be there for our kids. Until like almost 2014.”
The twosome continued to share a home until Moakler met now-ex Brian Sollima. The duo got “serious” so she told Barker, “I can’t be living with you anymore.”
“I stopped talking to [Travis] around 2014,” she continued. “We started following each other right before [Kourtney]. We still coparent. My oldest daughter is 24. My son is 20 years old. He’s living with his girlfriend [Charli D’Amelio]. They’re all talented.”
“He didn’t want to be known as a couple or a reality star,” she said, referring to the exes MTV show, Meet the Barkers. “He wanted to be known as a musician. He was so punk rock. He put an end to it [the show]. I think for him, he was the star. When it became about us as a couple, I wanted to be a power couple, he didn’t want that.”
Moakler claimed that after she and Barker first separated, she and Paris Hilton had a verbal altercation at Hyde nightclub in Los Angeles. (Moakler alleged that Barker had an affair with Hilton during their marriage.)
“That was sort of the end of it all. He went to Paris,” she said. “At the time I guess he was talking to Kim too.”
Despite their problems, Moakler claimed she still helped Barker get sober after he had issues on tour. “It was like some Johnny Cash type shit,” she said. “Everyone wanted to be a rockstar. They needed him to go party and drink and meet bitches and feel cool. He had a family. We got back together and we were trying to heal over that.”
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“We just looked into each other’s eyes and it was just, like, ding. That was it. We had quite a whirlwind there,” she said of her romance with Oscar La Hoya, whom she began dating in 1997. She noted that while the boxer “does drink a lot,” he’s also a “very fun” person.” (La Hoya eventually popped the question but the pair called off their engagement in 2000.)
“He loves to sing. He’s very social,” she said. “He was 25 when I met him. We were like babies.”
Moakler shared that she got pregnant with their daughter, Atiana, six months after meeting La Hoya, 50, and the twosome moved in together.
“We were madly in love,” she said. “I think our first date, like, I went to Big Bear and we took a private jet to Vegas. I remember people being like, ‘Champ, champ!’ I didn’t really know anything about the boxing world or him really. He’s very romantic. We just fell in love.”
Moakler claimed La Hoya did her “pretty dirty” with alleged infidelity after the birth of their daughter.
“[Atiana] was about 1 and a half, two years old. There were all these third parties,” she claimed. “He just lost his first fight. … I met him at Universal, and said, ‘Do you want this anymore?”
Moakler said that La Hoya told her they’d reset their romance after he got back from shooting Late Night With David Letterman. “It was everything I wanted to hear in that moment,” she added.
According to Moakler, La Hoya then attended the Latin Grammy Awards in Los Angeles with Mille Corretjer without giving her a heads-up.
“There he is holding hands with his now ex-wife. I just remember I lost my breath,” she recalled. “There was no backlash [publicly]. I didn’t stand a chance. The next day they had a lawyer come to the house and say, you and the baby need to move out. It just became just a shitshow whirlwind. He never called me again. He had his assistant [tell me we were done]. I really thought in that moment that my life was over.”
Moakler also claimed that she “quit everything” for La Hoya because he “did not want me working.”
Moakler recalled an alleged conversation about child support after her split from La Hoya.
“He said, I won’t see you or the baby until she’s 16 [if she sued him for palimony],” she claimed. “He got out of the car, I’ll never forget this, and he goes, I have more money than God. Don’t be too hard on me. And he left. I cried. I sued him for palimony, and I won. I really didn’t have a choice.”
She added, “He didn’t see the baby and I until she was about 16. She didn’t know her father growing up. They’ve made amends. He’s made amends with me. He’s apologized.”
“I have a great relationship with my kids,” she said. “Parental alienation is a real thing. I raised all my kids and I did a good job. My kids and I never had any bumps in the road until my ex-husband [Travis] started dating a Kardashian crew. I’m very confident in who I am as a mother. I’m very close with my kids.”
Moakler recalled first meeting Barker while at the Standard in L.A.
“I didn’t know who Blink-182 was,” she explained. “He was in the middle of a divorce [from first wife Melissa Kennedy]. I was like, ‘I don’t want to deal with a guy going through a divorce,” she recalled. “Then the next week [I went back]. Travis was there again. This time, he came up to me, and I said, ‘What’s your sign’ or something like that. We went back to his hotel, listening to music.”
Moakler shared that when the pair kissed, she thought, “Holy shit, I just met the love of my life” and she got pregnant six months later. “Travis is definitely more the love of my life in more ways than Oscar,” she shared.
Shanna Moakler is claiming that Kim Kardashian played a part in the breakdown of her marriage to ex-husband Travis Barker. During her Wednesday, January 10, appearance on the “Dumb Blonde” podcast, Moakler, 48, revealed that she and Barker, also 48, were “working” on their relationship when she was sent text messages between him and Kardashian,
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Every filmmaker aspires to create projects that are not only memorable but also uniquely their own. Finding your creative voice is a journey that requires self-reflection, bold choices, and an unwavering commitment to your vision. Here’s how to uncover your style, take risks, and craft original work that stands out.
Your unique voice begins with recognizing what inspires you.
Tip: Combine what you love with your personal experiences to create a lens that only you can offer.
Example: Wes Anderson’s whimsical, symmetrical worlds stem from his love of classic storytelling and his unique visual style.
Takeaway: Start with what moves you, then add your personal touch.
To stand out, you must be willing to challenge conventions and explore new territory.
Example: Jordan Peele blended horror with social commentary in Get Out, creating a genre-defying film that captivated audiences.
Takeaway: Risks are an opportunity for growth, even if they don’t always succeed.
Original projects resonate when they stem from a place of truth.
Example: Greta Gerwig’s Lady Bird was deeply personal, based on her experiences growing up in Sacramento. The film’s authenticity made it universally relatable.
Takeaway: The more personal the story, the more it resonates.
Style is not just about visuals—it’s how you tell a story across all elements of filmmaking.
Example: Quentin Tarantino’s use of dialogue, pop culture references, and bold music choices makes his work instantly recognizable.
Takeaway: Your style should be intentional, evolving as you grow but always recognizable as yours.
The filmmaking process is full of challenges, but staying true to your voice is essential.
Example: Ava DuVernay shifted from public relations to filmmaking, staying true to her voice in films like Selma and 13th, which focus on social justice.
Takeaway: Your voice evolves with every project, so embrace the process.
Finding your voice as a filmmaker takes time, courage, and commitment. By exploring your influences, taking risks, and staying true to your perspective, you’ll craft stories that not only stand out but also resonate deeply with your audience.
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Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo did not walk onto the BAFTA stage expecting to become a case study in how the industry mishandles racism in real time. They were there to present, hit their marks, and do what award shows have always asked of Black talent: bring charisma, sell the moment, keep the night moving.
Instead, while they stood under the lights, a man in the audience shouted the N‑word. The word carried across the theater and through the broadcast. The cameras kept rolling. The teleprompter kept scrolling. And the two men at the center of it did what they’ve been trained their entire careers to do: they kept going.
The incident was shocking, but the pattern around it was familiar.
In the days that followed, BAFTA released a public apology. The organization said it took responsibility for putting its guests “in a very difficult situation,” acknowledged that the word used carries deep trauma, and apologized to Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo. It also praised them for their “dignity and professionalism” in continuing to present.
The man who shouted the slur, a Tourette syndrome campaigner, explained that his outbursts are involuntary and expressed remorse for the pain his tic caused. That context about disability matters. Any honest conversation has to hold space for the reality that not every harmful word is spoken with intent.
But context doesn’t erase impact. For people watching at home—and especially for the men on that stage—the sequence was still the same: a slur detonated in the room, the show continued as if nothing happened, and the institutional response arrived later, in carefully crafted language.
Delroy Lindo summed up the experience by saying he and Jordan “did what we had to do,” and added that he wished someone from the organization had spoken with them directly afterward. That gap between polished statements and real‑time care is exactly where trust breaks down.
Strip away the PR and a hard truth emerges: almost all of the pressure fell on the people who were harmed, not the people in charge.
On stage, “professionalism” meant Jordan and Lindo were expected to stay composed so the room wouldn’t be uncomfortable. Off stage, “professionalism” meant the institution focused on managing optics after the fact instead of disrupting the show in the moment.
That raises a question the industry rarely wants to confront:
When we call for professionalism, whose comfort are we protecting?
For Black artists, professionalism has too often meant:
It’s easy to admire that composure. It’s harder to admit that the system routinely demands it from the very people absorbing the harm.
This didn’t happen in a chaotic open mic or an unsupervised live stream. It happened at one of the most carefully produced film ceremonies in the world—an event with run‑of‑show documents, stage managers, and communication channels in everyone’s ears.
If an incident like this can unfold there without a pause, it can unfold anywhere:
The honest question for anyone who runs events isn’t “How could BAFTA let this happen?” It’s “What would we actually do if it happened in our room?”
Would your moderator know they have explicit permission to stop everything?
Would your team know who goes to the stage, who speaks to the audience, and who stays with the person targeted?
Or would you also be scrambling to get the language right in a statement tomorrow?

If this moment is going to mean anything, the definition of professionalism has to change.
Professionalism cannot just be “don’t lose your cool on stage.” It has to include the courage and structure to protect the people on that stage when something goes wrong.
A better standard looks like this:
Sometimes the most professional thing you can do is allow a little discomfort in the room. It signals that human beings matter more than the illusion of seamlessness.
Michael B. Jordan and Delroy Lindo did what they have always been rewarded for doing: they protected the show. They shouldn’t have had to.
True respect for their craft and humanity would have looked like a room that moved to protect them instead—stopping the script, resetting the energy, and making it clear that the problem wasn’t their reaction, but the harm they’d just absorbed.
No performer should be asked to choose between their dignity and their career. So if you work anywhere in this industry—onstage or behind the scenes—this incident quietly handed you a new baseline:
Call it out.
Pause the show.
Back the person who was harmed.
That’s what professionalism should mean in 2026.

When scandals and cover‑ups dominate the timeline, it’s tempting to process them the same way we process everything else online: as content.
A headline becomes a meme, a victim becomes a character, and a years‑long story of abuse or corruption gets flattened into a 30‑second clip. In that kind of environment, it matters what we choose to watch—and how we watch it.
Some films lean into shock and spectacle. Others slow us down, asking us to sit with the systems that make these stories possible in the first place.

This article is about that second group.
Below are three films that are difficult, necessary, and deeply relevant when we’re surrounded by conversations about power, silence, and who actually gets held accountable. They’re not “true crime for fun.” They are stories about people who push back: journalists digging through archives, lawyers refusing to look away, and insiders who decide that telling the truth matters more than staying comfortable.
There’s a difference between consuming tragedy and engaging with it.
Scroll culture trains us to treat everything as a quick hit: outrage, reaction, move on. But systemic abuse and corruption don’t work on a 24‑hour cycle. They live in sealed files, non‑disclosure agreements, money, and relationships that make it easier to protect those in power than the people they harm. Films that focus on accountability rather than spectacle can do three important things:

With that frame in mind, here are three films that are worth revisiting or discovering for the first time.
Spotlight follows a small investigative team at a Boston newspaper as they uncover decades of child abuse inside the Catholic Church and the institutional effort to conceal it. It’s not flashy. There are no chase scenes, no “big twist.” The tension comes from phone calls that aren’t returned, doors that stay closed, and documents that may or may not exist. That’s the point.
The power of Spotlight is in its realism. The journalists don’t “win” through a single heroic act; they win through months of stubborn, often boring work—checking names, cross‑referencing records, going back to survivors who have every reason not to trust them. The film shows how systems protect themselves: not only through powerful leaders, but through a culture of looking away, minimizing harm, or deciding that “now isn’t the right time” to publish the truth.
Watching it in the context of any modern scandal is a reminder that revelations don’t come out of nowhere. Someone has to decide that the story is worth their career, their sleep, their peace. Someone has to keep calling.

In Dark Waters, a corporate defense lawyer discovers that a chemical company has been poisoning a community for years. The more he learns, the less plausible it becomes to stay on the side he’s paid to protect. What starts as a single client and a stack of records becomes a decades‑long fight against a corporation with far more money, influence, and time than he has.
The film is heavy—not because of graphic imagery, but because of the slow realization that this could happen anywhere. It shows how corporate harm doesn’t usually look like one dramatic event; it looks like small decisions, tolerated over time, because changing course would be expensive or embarrassing. Internal memos, risk calculations, and legal strategies become characters in their own right.
What makes Dark Waters important in this moment is the way it illustrates complicity. Very few people in the film set out to be “villains.” Many are simply doing their jobs, protecting their company, or choosing the convenient version of the truth. The story forces us to ask uncomfortable questions about where we draw our own lines—and what it costs to cross them.
If Spotlight looks at journalism and Dark Waters at corporate litigation, Michael Clayton focuses on the people whose job is to make problems disappear. The title character is a “fixer” at a prestigious law firm: he isn’t in court, and his name isn’t on the building, but he is the person they call when a client’s mess threatens to become public.
The film peels back the layers of how reputations are maintained. We see how language is used to soften reality—harm becomes “exposure,” victims become “plaintiffs,” and the goal is not necessarily to find the truth but to manage it. When Clayton begins to understand the scale of what his client has done, he faces a question at the core of a lot of modern scandals: what happens when someone inside the machine decides not to play their part anymore?
Michael Clayton is especially resonant when conversations online focus on “who knew” and “who helped.” It reminds us that entire careers and infrastructures exist to protect power and to make sure certain stories never catch fire in the first place.
Because these movies deal with abuse, corruption, and betrayal, they can be emotionally heavy—especially for people who have personal experience with similar harms. A few ways to approach them thoughtfully:
The goal isn’t to turn real‑world pain into “content you can feel good about watching.” It’s to understand the systems around that pain more clearly and to keep our empathy intact.
Sharing watchlists online can feel trivial, but small choices add up. When we recommend movies that take harm seriously, we’re nudging the culture in a different direction than the endless churn of sensational docuseries and clips built around shock value.
A thoughtful share says:
If you decide to post about these films, you don’t have to mention any specific scandal or case at all. You can simply say: “If you’re thinking a lot about power, silence, and cover‑ups right now, these are worth your time.” That alone can open up more grounded, respectful conversations than another round of speculation and rumor.
In a feed full of noise, choosing to highlight stories of persistence, investigation, and courage is its own quiet statement.

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