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Erin Lichy Vows RHONY Revenge Against Brynn Whitfield After Flirty Chat with Husband … on August 28, 2023 at 11:10 pm The Hollywood Gossip

This season of The Real Housewives of New York City has shown surprising depth to some of the RHONY 14 stars.
But make no mistake: none of them are above petty conflicts.
Erin Lichy was already griping after Sai left her 10 year anniversary party early. That’s sort of a recurring issue for Erin’s events.
So imagine her outrage when she learned what Brynn had said to her husband. At her anniversary party. Oh, right, you don’t have to imagine.
On RHONY Season 14, Episode 6, Brynn Whitfield may have jokingly suggested to Abe Lichy that he didn’t need to remain married. To her castmate. At his 10-year anniversary party. (Bravo)
Before we get into what went down on Episode 7, let’s briefly recap what happened last week on Episode 6.
Brynn Whitfield was being her usual flirty self while chatting with Abe Lichy at his anniversary party.
With Jessel there to bear witness (along with the cameras), she joked that he could find a way out of his marriage contract — and date her.
Jessel Taank cracked up at the way that Brynn Whitfield jokingly hit on Abe Lichy. Abe’s wife would not feel the same way, however. (Bravo)
Just to be clear, Brynn wasn’t trying to steal Erin “Stop The Steal” Lichy‘s husband. (Also, that’s not how it works; the only way to “steal” a spouse is kidnapping, which is a crime)
She was joking. Abe knew that she was joking. Jessel knew that she was joking.
But we all knew that Erin wasn’t going to be jumping for joy when she learned of this.
The way that RHONY’s cameras panned around the gym while we heard the fairly convincing, erotic sounds of Brynn Whitfield working out? That’s art, right there. (Bravo)
Back to this episode, Brynn seems to be the only one who isn’t waiting for a giant cartoon anvil to drop on her head.
(Erin would be the cartoon character pushing it, to be clear. Or dropping it. However anvils work; I’m not a blacksmith)
Sai De Silva was doing some bonding with Jenna Lyons. This is where she learned that Jenna’s original name was Judith.
“Do we need to revisit last night?” Jenna Lyons asks her castmate, Sai De Silva. See, Sai had walked out of a party, and Jenna is hoping to warn her about the spurned host’s wrath. (Bravo)
And this was also when Jenna gave Sai a bit of a head’s up that Erin was royally pissed about Sai skipping out.
Sai left because there was not enough food for her. She does not eat meat. And we have all seen Sai talk about food a lot.
Now, Sai didn’t seem to feel that she’d made some grave mistake. But Jenna let her know anyway.
Erin Lichy has several bones to pick with her castmates. Talkng during the vows is only part of it. One fo them left. One of them wore sunglasses the whole night. (Bravo)
An unhappy Erin sat down with Abe to discuss how the group’s antics “rubbed her the wrong way.”
Her sister, Kelley, had clashed with the Housewives because they were talking amongst themselves during toasts and vows.
Erin also pointed out that Sai “didn’t even say goodbye” before she left to find find. “That’s just so beyond rude,” Erin remarked. She felt that they should have known better.
Abe Lichy tells Erin about how one of her castmates jokingly hit on him at their 10-year anniversary celebration. He laughed, but she is not laughing. (Bravo)
At this point, Abe brought up that Brynn had joked that they weren’t technically married.
Initially, Erin and Abe didn’t exchange vows. While that’s not actually a legal loophole, Brynn was just joking.
Brynn also joked that he should look her up when he and Erin divorce. And yes, for the record, she did drop the D-word.
A RHONY flashback shows Brynn Whitfield telling Abe Lichy that he could exploit a technicality to “get out of” his marriage to Erin. She was joking. Flirtatiously. (Bravo)
Abe did laugh at the joke, but he admitted to Erin that it was a “weird” thing to say in “the setting.”
“It really pisses me off,” Erin ranted to the camera. “She came in. She started some s–t.” And she scolded Abe for having found Brynn funny.
Erin went on: “She said rude things to my husband. She wore sunglasses the whole time. Then she walked out. Sometimes she doesn’t have tact, and it really pisses me off.”
Erin Lichy does not like anything that she’s hearing about how her castmates behaved at her anniversary party. (Bravo)
“I don’t know why you’re laughing, I’m, like, disgusted,” Erin chastised Abe.
“How is it funny that she’s joking that you should be f–king around?” she demanded.
“I’m, like, sick to my stomach,” Erin expressed. “I just don’t even know how I’m supposed to be in the same room as her.”
Brynn Whitfield meets up with Elise, who instructs people on how to make wreaths. What a life. (Bravo)
Honestly, if you’ve ever had someone ruin a party, you can understand Erin’s feelings. But it’s largely a question of whether or not her castmates actually ruined anything.
Meanwhile, Brynn — still blissfully unaware of Erin’s fury — met up with Elise, who would lead the group in making wreaths.
She was planning a cute, kitschy little party ahead of Christmas (and, you know, the numerous other holidays that time of year).
Sai De Silva sits down at the table next to Jenna Lyons. True to form, Sai is complaining about the food options. (Bravo)
Erin did attend the party, but not with good intentions. (Ubah Hassan did not, as she was under the weather)
In fact, she told the camera fairly directly that she’s holding a grudge.
“I want to ruin her party, just like she ruined mine,” Erin announced. Whether she was joking, everyone could tell that she was not in a great mood as soon as she arrived.
Erin Lichy arrives, and her castmates immediately detect her dark mood. (Bravo)
Like we said, everyone noticed the stormcloud over Erin’s head.
At first, no one — except perhaps Jenna, who chose to not intercede much at all — seemed to know why.
Sai likely suspected, thanks to Jenna’s warning. But she didn’t have long to wait.
Erin Lichy very bluntly confronts her castmate about leaving her party early. (Bravo)
Shortly after joining in on the wreath-making, Erin made a not-so-subtle jab about how early Sai had left her party.
Seriously, it’s the kind of passive-aggressive thing that people in deeply toxic marriages on TV dramas say.
This put Sai on the defensive. She quickly reminded Erin that she didn’t have enough food out, and she left because she was hungry.
Sai De Silva very bluntly tells her castmate that she “doesn’t care” that it was poor etiquette to leave early. She was hungry, and the party didn’t have much food to offer. (Bravo)
Yes, Sai talks and complains about food and food options a great deal.
But being particular about food is normal and usually healthy.. And when you’re hungry, you’re hungry.
Erin thinks that it’s childish, but maybe Sai just has a very fast metabolism to go with her dietary restrictions.
Brynn Whitfield discovers that her castmate is unhappy with her. (Bravo)
Then, Erin picked a fight with Brynn over her jokes to Abe, demanding: “Do you think it’s normal to do that?”
She went on to her stunned castmate: “You said, ‘Wow so you’re not actually married because at your first wedding, you didn’t actually say vows.’”
Erin added: “And then ‘You said whenever you’re ready to get divorced, please let me know.’”
Jessel Taank looks amused as Erin Lichy confronts Brynn Whitfield. Jessel was the witness to the original event, and now she gets to watch the aftermath unfold. (Bravo)
A furious Erin continued: “I don’t care if it’s a joke to bring up divorce with my husband at my 10-year anniversary party.”
Jessel looked on. Remember, she was there for Brynn’s whole conversation with Abe.
And she spoke up to defend Brynn. Though, in the process, she may have gone overboard.
Brynn Whitfield defends herself while Jessel Taank backs her up, explaining that Brynn was simply being herself. (Bravo)
They both insisted that she’d never said “divorce.” But she did. She did. It was a joke, but she did.
Meanwhile, Sai grew tired of the conflict, and called both Brynn and Erin “grinches” for harshing the holiday vibes.
To the confessional, Sai was blunt: “It’s not a big deal. We all know Brynn loves to flirt. That’s what she does. Does she really want your husband? No.”
Sai De Silva speaks very frankly to the confessional camera. (Bravo)
In her own confessional moment, Jessel said something very similar
“I know women that are out to get your husband,” she said.
“And this,” Jessel explained, “was not that moment.”
Looking gorgeous in red, Jessel Taank points out that the conflict among two of her castmates has lost the plot. (Bravo)
At this point, Brynn felt defensive and clearly exhausted by Erin.
She warned Erin: “Accuse me of flirting with a married man, things are really going to get real.”
Eventually, Brynn told her that she’d been talking to Abe in the first place because Erin’s party was “boring.”
Brynn Whitfield digs in her heels and fires back, declaring that the party that she allegedly ruined was “boring.” Probably true, but she also probably shouldn’t say it. (Bravo)
Erin left the party the same way that she entered: angry.
Unlike her entrance, she left early.
And Sai’s “Merry Christmas” sounded less like a sincere farewell and a lot more like a reminder that Erin was, as she’d said, being a bit of a Grinch.
A furious Erin Lichy storms away, while Sai De Silva wishes her a “Merry Christmas.” We suspect that Sai’s farewell was intended to highlight how crabby Erin seemed. (Bravo)
“This is the difference between Brynn and most of my friends,” Erin told the confessional camera.
“Brynn digs her heels,” she complained. “She doesn’t take ownership.”
Erin accused: “She can’t apologize and move on.”
Erin Lichy calls her sister, Kelley, to complain about her castmate. (Bravo)
Outside, Erin called her sister, Kelley.
Kelley also griped about Erin’s castmates and especially about Brynn, declaring that they were rude.
Maybe a little? Even as an uptight person myself, it seems like Erin’s a little tightly wound about this. And her friend, Jenna, clearly agrees.
Jenna Lyons speaks to the confessional about how small conflicts can spiral into larger ones. (Bravo)
In the confessional, Jenna told the camera about how Erin hadn’t needed to let this escalate. But she’d escalated it herself.
And Jenna, who has previously marveled at Brynn’s flirting skills, added that Brynn was flirty while ordering steak.
So there was no need for this to get so ugly. Erin and Brynn just clearly only get along under specific circumstances.
Jenna Lyons passes out gifts to her castmates … except for the one who is sick, and the one who stormed away in a huff. (Bravo)
Jenna passed out gifts to the remaining ladies. This is sort of her version of Oprah’s Favorite Things, but many of them are her own brand or collaborations.
Sai teased her about these being “sponsored” gifts.
Meanwhile, Jessel very consciously expressed her gratitude. You know what that is? Growth!
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What the Michael Biopic Means for Every Indie Filmmaker

The Michael Jackson biopic Michael is more than celebrity drama; it is a real-time lesson in how legal decisions can quietly rewrite a story that millions of people will see. You do not need a $200M budget for the same forces—contracts, settlements, and rights issues—to shape or even erase key parts of your own work.

What Happened to Michael
The film Michael originally included a third act that addressed the 1993 child sexual abuse allegations and their impact on Jackson’s life and career. Trade reports say this version showed investigators at Neverland Ranch and dramatized the scandal as a turning point in the story. After cameras rolled, lawyers for the Jackson estate realized there was a clause in the settlement with accuser Jordan Chandler that barred any depiction or mention of him in a movie.
Because of that old agreement, the filmmakers had to remove all references to Chandler and rework the ending so the story stopped years earlier, in the late 1980s at Jackson’s commercial peak.
According to reporting, this meant roughly 22 days of reshoots, costing around 10–15 million dollars and pushing the total budget over 200 million.
Meanwhile, actress Kat Graham confirmed her portrayal of Diana Ross was cut for “legal considerations,” showing how likeness and approval issues can wipe out an entire character even after filming.
For audiences, the result is a movie that intentionally avoids one of the most controversial chapters of Jackson’s life, which some critics argue makes the portrait feel incomplete or selectively curated.
The Hidden Power of Contracts and Rights
The key detail in the Michael story is that a contract signed decades ago could dictate what present-day filmmakers are allowed to show. That settlement clause did not just affect the people who signed it; it effectively controlled the narrative of a big-budget film made years later. This is how legal documents become invisible co-authors: they quietly set boundaries around what your story can and cannot include.
Creators face similar invisible lines with:
- Life-rights and defamation: If you dramatize real people, especially in a negative light, they can claim defamation or invasion of privacy if your portrayal is inaccurate or harmful.
- Copyright and trademarks: Unlicensed music, clips, logos, or artwork can trigger copyright or trademark claims that block distribution or force expensive changes.
- Distribution contracts: Some deals give distributors the right to re-edit, retitle, or repackage your work without your approval unless you negotiate otherwise.
Legal commentary warns that fictionalizing real events and people carries heightened risk because audiences tend to connect your dramatization back to actual individuals. That risk does not disappear just because you are “small” or “indie”; impact, not audience size, usually determines exposure.
Why This Matters for Indie Filmmakers and Creators
Independent filmmakers often choose the indie route precisely to maintain creative control, but they can face more risk if they skip legal planning. Common problems include unclear ownership of the script, missing music licenses, handshake agreements with collaborators, and no written permission to use locations or people’s likenesses. These are the kinds of issues that can derail distribution, block a streaming deal, or force last-minute cuts that fundamentally change your story.
Legal guides for indie filmmakers consistently emphasize a few realities:
- You do not fully “own” your film unless you have clear contracts for writing, directing, producing, and underlying rights.
- Unregistered or unlicensed creative elements (like music and logos) can make your project uninsurable or unattractive to distributors.
- Fixing legal problems after the fact is almost always more expensive and limiting than planning for them at the beginning.
So when you watch Michael skip over certain events, you are seeing, in exaggerated form, the same forces that can shape an indie short, web series, documentary, or podcast episode.
Practical Legal Lessons You Can Apply Now
You do not need a law degree, but you do need a basic legal strategy for your creative work. Here are practical steps drawn from entertainment-law and indie-film resources:
- Clarify who owns the story
- Use written agreements with co-writers, directors, and producers that state who owns the script and finished film.
- If your work is based on a real person or memoir, secure life-rights or written permission where appropriate, especially if the portrayal is sensitive.
- Be intentional with real people and events
- When telling true or inspired-by-true stories, avoid making specific, negative claims about identifiable people unless they are well-documented and legally vetted.
- Change names, details, and circumstances enough that the person is not clearly identifiable if you do not have their cooperation.
- Lock down music and visuals
- Use original scores, licensed tracks, or reputable libraries; never assume you can keep a song just because it is in a rough cut.
- Clear artwork, logos, and recognizable brands, or replace them with generic or custom-designed alternatives.
- Protect yourself in contracts
- When signing any distribution or platform deal, read the clauses about editing, retitling, and marketing carefully; ask for limits or at least consultation rights.
- Include terms that let you reclaim rights if a partner fails to release the work, goes dark, or breaches key promises.
- Document everything
- Keep organized copies of releases, licenses, and contracts; these documents are part of your project’s value and proof of your rights.
- Register your work where applicable (for example, copyright), which strengthens your ability to enforce your rights if someone copies you.
Education-focused legal resources repeatedly stress that preventative steps—basic contracts, clear permissions, and simple registrations—are far cheaper than dealing with takedowns, lawsuits, or forced rewrites later.
The Big Takeaway: Story and Law Are Connected
The Michael biopic illustrates what happens when legal obligations and creative vision collide: whole characters disappear, endings are rewritten, and the public only sees a version of the story that fits within old contracts.
As an indie filmmaker, writer, or content creator, you may not have millions at stake, but you do have something just as valuable—your voice and your ability to tell the story you meant to tell.
Understanding the legal dimensions of your work is not a distraction from creativity; it is a way of protecting it. When you know where the legal boundaries are, you can design stories that are bold, truthful, and still safe enough to reach the audiences they deserve.
Entertainment
Mother’s Day AfroFun Praise Party: Gospel Dance, Fitness & Feel‑Good Stats in 60 Minutes

This Mother’s Day in Spring, Texas, you’re invited to do more than just sit at brunch—come dance, sweat, and celebrate at the Mother’s Day AfroFun Praise Party: Gospel Dance, Fitness & Feel‑Good Stats in 60 Minutes. This one‑hour Afrobeat gospel dance class is for men and women, bringing live worship, high‑energy choreography, and real fitness benefits together in one unforgettable experience.
Live gospel + Afrobeat energy
On the mic is powerhouse gospel singer Shawna Pat, known for her heartfelt worship, energetic praise songs, and ministry that makes every room feel like church and concert at the same time. She’ll be leading live vocals all class long, turning each track into a moment to sing along, shout, or just soak in the presence while you move.
On the floor, Andrew from WoWo Boyz and the Kingdrewwskyy crew bring the Afrobeat power. Expect easy‑to‑follow, Afro‑inspired choreography that looks hype on video but still feels doable if you’re brand new to dance. Together, Shawna and Andrew create a “praise party meets fitness class” vibe you can’t get from a playlist or a regular gym session.
A co‑ed Mother’s Day celebration that counts
This event is built for men and women—moms, dads, sons, daughters, couples, and friends who want to honor the mothers in their lives while doing something healthy and fun. The format is simple: warm‑up, dance‑cardio, a short ministry moment focused on mothers and families, and a cool‑down to breathe and stretch it out.
All levels are welcome. If you can walk and two‑step, you can do this class. You choose your intensity: go all‑in with every jump or keep it low‑impact and still stay in the groove. The music is clean and faith‑filled, so you never have to worry about lyrics or the vibe if you’re inviting church friends or bringing teens.
The feel‑good fitness stats
Behind the fun, this one hour delivers real health wins. Health guidelines recommend at least 150 minutes of moderate‑intensity cardio per week, but less than half of adults hit that number. AfroFun helps close that gap—by making movement feel like a celebration instead of a chore.
In just 60 minutes, many people can:
- Hit 4,000–6,000+ steps, based on what similar dance‑fitness and Mother’s Day cardio sessions log in under an hour.
- Spend solid time in their heart‑healthy zone, where cardio actually strengthens the heart and builds endurance.
- Knock out a big chunk of their weekly 150‑minute cardio goal in one fun, faith‑filled session.
You walk out with more than photos and memories—you leave with better numbers for your heart, body, and mood.
Get your tickets
AfroFun Praise Party happens Sunday, May 10, 4–5 PM at 2400 FM 2920, Spring, TX 77388, with free parking and in‑person, high‑energy vibes. Tickets are limited, and early spots always move fastest once people see Shawna Pat and WoWo Boyz are in the building.
Advice
How Far Would You Go to Book Your Dream Role?

The question Sydney Sweeney’s career forces every serious artist to ask themselves.
Most people say they want to be an actor. But wanting the life and being willing to do what the life requires are two entirely different things. Sydney Sweeney’s performance as Cassie Howard in Euphoria is one of the clearest examples in recent television of what it actually looks like when an artist refuses to protect themselves from the story they are telling.
The Performance That Started a Conversation
Cassie Howard is not a comfortable character to watch. She is messy, desperate, and heartbreakingly human in ways that most scripts would have softened or simplified. Sydney Sweeney did not soften her. She played every scene at full exposure — the breakdowns, the humiliation, the moments where Cassie is both completely wrong and completely understandable at the same time.
What made the performance remarkable was not the difficulty of the scenes. It was the consistency of her commitment to them. Night after night on set, take after take, she showed up and gave the camera something real. That is not a small thing. That is the kind of discipline that separates working actors from generational ones.
What the Industry Does Not Tell You
The entertainment industry sells you a version of success built around talent, timing, and luck. And while all three matter, none of them are the real differentiator in a room full of equally talented people. The real differentiator is willingness — the willingness to be honest, to be vulnerable, and to let the work require something personal from you.
Most actors hit a wall at some point in their career where a role demands more than they have publicly shown before. The ones who say yes to that moment, who trust the material and the director enough to go somewhere uncomfortable, are the ones audiences remember long after the credits roll.
Sydney Sweeney said yes repeatedly. And the industry took notice.
The Question Worth Asking Yourself
Before you answer, really think about it. There is a moment in every serious audition room where someone might ask you to go further than you are comfortable with — to access something real, to stop performing and start revealing. In that moment, you have to decide what your dream is actually worth to you and, more importantly, what parts of yourself you are not willing to trade for it.
That is the question Euphoria quietly raises for anyone watching with ambition in their chest. Not “could I do that,” but “should I ever feel pressured to.” There is a difference between an artist who chooses vulnerability as a creative tool and one who is pressured into exposure they never agreed to. Knowing that difference is not a weakness. It is the most important thing a young actor can understand before they walk into a room that will test it.
Because the only role that truly costs too much is the one that asks you to abandon who you are to play it.
What You Can Take From This
Whether you are an actor, a filmmaker, a content creator, or someone simply building something from scratch, the principle is the same. The work that connects with people is almost always the work that cost the creator something real. Audiences can feel the difference between performance and truth. They always could.
Sydney Sweeney did not become one of the most talked-about actresses of her generation because she got lucky. She got there because she was willing to be completely, uncomfortably human in front of a camera — and because she knew exactly who she was before she let the role take over.
That combination — full commitment and a clear sense of self — is rarer than talent. And it is the thing worth chasing.
Written for Bolanle Media | Entertainment. Culture. Conversation.
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