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Biggest Bachelor Nation Moments of 2023: ‘The Golden Bachelor’ and More on December 27, 2023 at 3:00 am Us Weekly
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Bachelor Nation might have had its most dramatic year yet in 2023.
The year kicked off with Zach Shallcross’ Bachelor stint. The season was full of drama, thanks in part to his finale confrontation with Gabi Elnicki over their fantasy suite date.
“It’s honestly worse watching it back,” Gabi said during the live finale, reliving their breakup and calling it “violating” that Zach had revealed to the “entire nation” that they had sex. After their onscreen split, Zach proposed to Kaity Biggar, to whom he’s still engaged.
Zach and Kaity weren’t the only Bachelor Nation success story of the year. Charity Lawson became the Bachelorette in June, and when her season came to an end in August, she was engaged to Dotun Olubeko. The couple stayed strong while Charity competed on Dancing With the Stars, and they’re still together.
Come September, the first-ever Golden Bachelor season premiered with Gerry Turner at the helm. Bachelor Nation watched as he fell in love with three women — Theresa Nist, Faith Martin and Leslie Fhima — but ultimately proposed to Theresa. The couple has a Golden Wedding special set to air early next year.
Bachelor in Paradise season 9 finally premiered in September, with tons of former contestants hitting the beach. The finale premiered in December with three happy couples — Kylee Russell and Aven Jones, Eliza Isichei and Aaron Bryant and John Henry Spurlock and Kat Izzo — but they all announced their respective breakups days later.
Even when the cameras weren’t rolling, former leads and contestants were making jaw-dropping headlines. Keep scrolling for a full breakdown of the biggest Bachelor Nation moments of 2023:
Podcast Shakeups (January)
The year kicked off with Natasha Parker announcing that she would no longer be part of the “Click Bait” podcast — or the franchise at all. Not long after that, the Bachelor-produced podcast stopped releasing episodes altogether. Warner Bros. ended the show and subsequently moved host Joe Amabile to “Bachelor Happy Hour” with wife Serena Pitt, meaning Becca Kufrin and Michelle Young were out of a gig. Becca’s now-husband, Thomas Jacobs, later slammed the show online, but Joe told Us in July that the couples are still on good terms.
Gabi Confronts Zach (March)
Season 27 of The Bachelor may have started off slowly, but things really picked up when Zach had sex with Gabi — and then picked Kaity — after declaring earlier on that he wasn’t going to be intimate with anyone on the series.
Peter Weber and Kelley Flanagan Split for Good (May)
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Peter, the season 24 Bachelor, and Kelley, one of his contestants, dated on and off for three years after he ended his engagement to winner Hannah Ann Sluss in 2020. The twosome called it quits for good in 2023, with the pilot finally confirming his single status in May. Kelley, for her part, has since started dating Ari Raptis.
Brandon Jones and Serene Russell Don’t See Eye to Eye on Their Split (May)
Brandon and Serene announced their “painful” breakup in May, splitting less than one year after he proposed during the Bachelor in Paradise season 8 finale.
“We are deeply hurting and can only ask that there be no hate,” the exes wrote in a joint social media statement. “The best path for us at this time is to try and move forward and heal from this as individuals.”
In October, Serene addressed the rumored infidelity surrounding their breakup. She claimed that a video surfaced that confirmed Brandon had cheated on her prior to their split. Brandon, meanwhile, took a stand against the “false” narrative but “took ownership” for his actions.
“She felt that I had cheated and wanted to make this news known,” he alleged in an Instagram Story statement. “For the record, in the early days of our official breakup, I shared one dance with a woman … nothing else, just a single dance before leaving with my friends.”
Kaitlyn Bristowe and Jason Tartick Call Off Their Engagement (August)
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In perhaps the most jaw-dropping Bachelor Nation breakup of the year, Kaitlyn and Jason announced their “heartbreaking” split after four years together with a joint Instagram statement in August.
“I think people assume if people break up, something bad happened. And I think that’s the hardest part of this whole breakup — nothing bad happened,” Kaitlyn shared during an August episode of her “Off the Vine” podcast. “We have both not made each other a priority. And this is what happens.”
The pair have no bad blood — the exes reunited for the first time at Chris Harrison and Lauren Zima’s wedding in November — but Jason has since admitted to crying more over the breakup than anything in his life.
“Kaitlyn meant so much to me and still currently does,” he shared on Chris’ “The Most Dramatic Podcast Ever” in December.
Charity and Dotun Get Engaged (August)
The season 20 couple are still going strong after Dotun popped the question during the August finale, making Charity the first Bachelorette since Rachel Lindsay on season 13 in 2017 to still be with her final rose winner.
Gabby Windey Finds Love With Robby Hoffman (August)
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During an appearance on The View, the season 19 co-Bachelorette revealed she is in a relationship with the female comedian. The announcement came less than one year after she ended her engagement to winner Erich Schwer in November 2022.
“The best thing [about our relationship] is that we’re both girls. I mean, I feel like we’re best friends and we can talk for hours,” Gabby later gushed to Us. “We have a lot of the same views. We have similar experiences. So, it really feels like an ideal relationship where you’re friends first, but also with a connection and an attraction. It doesn’t get much better than that.”
Josh Seiter Is Alive After Death Hoax (August)
Josh — who appeared on Kaitlyn’s Bachelorette season in 2015 — made headlines in August when a since-deleted Instagram statement falsely announced his death. The following day, Josh revealed that he was still “alive and well” in a separate Instagram video.
“My account was hacked for the last 24 hours. I had been trying desperately to get into it,” Josh said. “Somebody was playing a cruel joke and mocking my mental illness and the struggles I’ve gone through with depression and suicide attempts. I am sorry for the pain they caused when they made that post.”
Josh’s ex Monica Beverly Hillz (real name Monica Dejesus-Anaya) alleged to Entertainment Weekly that “there’s no way in hell” his account was hacked. Josh subsequently denied Monica’s claims. (Reality TV superfans may also remember Monica from her season 5 turn on RuPaul’s Drag Race.)
Weeks later, Josh announced that he had checked himself into a mental health facility after receiving “hundreds of hateful messages” regarding the death hoax.
Clayton Echard Is Not Going to Be a Father (September)
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Former Bachelor Clayton made headlines in September after news broke that an unnamed woman filed court documents one month prior alleging that she was pregnant with his twins. In the docs, filed on August 1, the woman claimed she had “engaged in sexual activity” with Echard in May and hadn’t “hadn’t been with anyone since March of 2022.”
In a response to the initial filing, Clayton claimed that the case was “groundless and lacking in merit.” He also alleged in a statement to Us Weekly that he “did not have sexual intercourse” with the woman. He subsequently agreed to take a paternity test.
In an October Instagram video, Clayton announced to Bachelor Nation that he is not the father of the twins. “I got the good news today,” he said. “The test results came back early, and they said little to no fetal DNA present. Let’s go, baby!”
The woman subsequently claimed in a statement to Us that Clayton was “lying” about the results.
Danielle Maltby and Michael Allio’s Breakup Turns Messy (September)
After weeks of speculation, Michael confirmed his and Danielle’s unplanned breakup during an episode of Jason’s “Trading Secrets” podcast in September.
“We’re not together anymore,” he said at the time. “We both threw a lot into this relationship, and it’s really awful when it doesn’t work out.”
Danielle spoke out about the split days later, revealing it was “not a mutual decision” in an Instagram Story. Danielle further discussed the breakup on “The WoMed” podcast, revealing that she was “blindsided” when Michael broke up with her “the day after” they froze her eggs.
Michael, for his part, claimed that he had previously expressed that he did not want to have more kids. (Michael shares 7-year-old son James with his late wife, Laura.)
Gerry Says ‘I Love You’ 3 Times (November)
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The first-ever senior Bachelor may have been older, but he wasn’t much wiser than the younger Bachelors before him. While he is now happily engaged to winner Theresa, Gerry had to face the music when he said “I love you” to all three of his finalists: Theresa, Leslie and Faith. Runner-up Leslie subsequently put him on blast during After the Final Rose and in interviews that followed, claiming that Gerry promised her she was The One during their overnight date.
Brayden Bowers Debuts Surprise Christina Mandrell Relationship (December)
Brayden from Charity’s season revealed that he is dating Christina from Zach’s season during the Bachelor in Paradise season 9 finale in December. After the finale aired, Christina gushed over her “truly special” relationship with Brayden.
“In each other, we have a space where being unapologetically ourselves is not just accepted but celebrated!” she captioned an Instagram post. “Something I never knew I was missing until I did.”
All 3 ‘Bachelor in Paradise’ Season 9 Couples Implode … (December)
Bachelor in Paradise season 9 ended with three seemingly happy couples. While Kylee and Aven left the beach in a relationship, they — much to Kylee’s chagrin — did not get engaged. After the BiP finale aired, Aven posted a photo announcing that he and Kylee were still together. One day later, however, Kylee announced on social media that she and Aven broke up after their relationship “dissolved due to multiple infidelities.” Aven, for his part, apologized to Kylee in his own statement, noting that he’s in an “extremely low place.”
Aaron proposed to Eliza during the BiP season 9 finale. The duo stayed silent about the status of their relationship after the finale aired. Days later, Aaron announced that he and Eliza had called off their engagement with an “amicable split.” Eliza has yet to address the breakup.
Lastly, John Henry and Kat left the beach engaged. On BiP finale night, she played coy about the status of their relationship, sharing photos of herself and John Henry. Days later, however, they released a joint statement announcing they had called off their engagement due to their “career goals not aligning.”
… While Former Leads Find The One Off Screen (All Year Long)
Several former Bachelor and Bachelorette leads found their happily-ever-after off screen in 2023. Season 14 Bachelorette Becca married Thomas and welcomed their first son, while season 16 co-Bachelorette Clare Crawley married Ryan Dawkins. The couple are expecting their first child via surrogate. In May, season 10 Bachelorette Andi Dorfman married Blaine Hart in Italy. Tayshia Adams, who took over for Clare on season 16, started dating Summer House alum Luke Gulbranson, while season 15 Bachelorette Hannah Brown got engaged to longtime love Adam Woolard. Season 21 Bachelor Nick Viall is going to be a dad in the new wear when fiancée Natalie Joy gives birth to their daughter, while season 16 Bachelor Ben Flajnik got married in November (and opted not to announce his bride’s name). Season 23 Bachelor Colton Underwood and former host Chris Harrison rounded out the year of Bachelor Nation weddings when they exchanged vows with Jordan C. Brown and Lauren Zima, respectively.
Monica Schipper/Getty Images; Disney/John Fleenor Bachelor Nation might have had its most dramatic year yet in 2023. The year kicked off with Zach Shallcross’ Bachelor stint. The season was full of drama, thanks in part to his finale confrontation with Gabi Elnicki over their fantasy suite date. “It’s honestly worse watching it back,” Gabi said
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This scene almost broke him. And changed his career.

As Sinners surges into the cultural conversation, it’s impossible to ignore the force of Christian Robinson’s performance. His “let me in” door scene has become one of the film’s defining moments—raw, desperate, and unforgettable. But the power of that scene makes the most sense when you understand the journey that brought him there.
From church play to breakout roles
Christian’s path didn’t begin on a Hollywood set. It started in a Brooklyn church, when a woman named Miss Val kept asking him to be in a play.
“I told her no countless times,” he remembers. “Every time she saw me, she asked me and she wouldn’t stop asking me.”
He finally said yes—and everything changed.
“I did it once and I fell in love,” he says. That one performance pushed him into deep research on the craft, a move to Atlanta, and years of unglamorous work: training, auditioning, stacking small wins until he booked his first roles and then Netflix’s Burning Sands, where many met him as Big Country.
By the time Sinners came along, he wasn’t a newcomer hoping to get lucky. He was an actor who had quietly built the muscles to carry something bigger.
The door scene: life or death
On The Roselyn Omaka Show, Christian shared the directing note Ryan Coogler gave him before filming the door scene:
“He explained to me, ‘I need you to bang on this door as if your life depended on it. Like it’s a matter of life and death.’”
Christian didn’t just turn up the volume; he reached deeper.
“This film speaks a lot about our ancestors,” he told Roselyn Omaka. “So I tried to give a glimpse of what our ancestors would’ve experienced if someone or something that could bring ultimate destruction was after them. How hard would they bang? How loud would they scream to try to get into a place safely? That’s what I intended to convey in that moment.”
That inner picture—life or death, ancestors, ultimate destruction—is why the scene hits like more than a plot beat. It feels like generational memory breaking through a single frame.
Living through a “history” moment in real time
When Roselyn asks what he’s processing as Sinners takes off, Christian admits he’s still inside the wave.
“I’ve never experienced a project with this level of reception and energy and momentum,” he says. “People having their theories and breaking it down and doing reenactments… it’s never been a time like this in my career.”
He’s careful not to over‑define something that’s still unfolding: “There’s no way to give an accurate description of what I’m experiencing while I’m still experiencing it.” He knows he’ll need distance to name it fully.
But he can name one thing: “If I could gather any adjective to describe it, it would be gratefulness. I’m grateful.”
He also feels the weight of what this film might mean long-term:
“To know that I was there for a large amount of the time it was being brought to life, and a part of what the internet is saying will be history… this is something that I’m inspired by—to shoot for the stars in whatever passion rooted in creativity that you possess.”
Music, joy, and the man behind the moment
Christian talks about the music of Sinners as another force that shaped him. The score wasn’t playing nonstop; it showed up in key moments.
“The music was played when it was necessary to be played. But when it was played, it resonated,” he says. Hearing Miles Caton’s songs early, before the world did, he remembers thinking, “This is going to be magical… This is one of the ones right here.”
For all the heaviness of the story, he also brought levity. He laughs about being the jokester on set—singing Juvenile and Lil Wayne in the New Orleans hair and makeup trailer, trying to make everyone smile during Essence Fest weekend. “I’m a fun guy,” he says. “I love to see people laugh and have a good time.”
PATHS for us and opening doors
What might be most revealing is how seriously Christian takes his responsibility off screen. In 2015, sitting in his apartment outside Atlanta, he felt God tell him to start a nonprofit called PATHS.
“I heard from God and he told me to start a nonprofit called PATHS,” he recalls. At first, he and his peers went into schools and inner‑city communities to teach young people “the many different paths to entering the entertainment industry”—not just the craft, but “the practical steps and establishing yourself, like the business of an actor… a stunt person, hair and makeup, etc.”
When the pandemic hit and school visits stopped, he pivoted to a podcast and digital platform: “Fine, I’ll do it,” he laughs. Now PATHS for us lets “anyone anywhere that desires to be in entertainment hear from credible entertainment industry professionals on how they got to where they are and how you can do the same.”
Working on Sinners confirmed that he should go all in: “It just gave me exactly what I needed to know that I should pour my all into it.”
Honoring a history-making moment
As Sinners takes off, Christian keeps coming back to one word: gratefulness—for the film, for the collaborators, for the chance to be part of something people are calling historic.
At Bolanle Media, we see more than a viral scene. We see an artist whose craft is rooted in faith, ancestors, and hard-earned discipline; whose joy lifts the rooms he works in; and whose platform is opening real paths for others.
This scene almost broke him. And changed his career.
Now, as the world catches up, Christian Robinson is using that breakthrough not just to walk through new doors—but to help the next generation find theirs.
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7 Filmmaking Lessons From Michael B. Jordan’s Oscar Moment

Michael B. Jordan’s first Oscar win for Sinners isn’t just a milestone for his career — it’s a masterclass for filmmakers watching from the edit bay, the writing desk, or the no‑budget set.
For years, Jordan has been building toward this moment: from early TV roles to his breakout in Fruitvale Station, the cultural shockwave of Black Panther, and his evolution into a producer and director. His Sinners performance and awards run crystallize a set of habits, choices, and values that rising filmmakers can actually use.
1. “Find Your Coogler”: The Power of Long-Term Collaboration
Jordan’s professional story is inseparable from his collaboration with Ryan Coogler. They’ve moved together from intimate indie drama to franchise-level spectacle, and now to awards-season dominance with Sinners.
“Find your people and grow with them, not just next to them.”
For filmmakers, the takeaway is simple:
- Stop thinking in “one‑off” crews.
- Start identifying the producers, DPs, editors, writers, and actors you want to build years of work with.
That kind of trust lets you move faster, go deeper, and take bigger risks together.
2. Preparation That Lets You Jump Off the Cliff
Jordan has talked in interviews about preparing so thoroughly that he can “let go” when the cameras roll. The homework — script work, character study, physical training, emotional research — is what makes the risk possible.
You can translate that directly into a filmmaking workflow:
- Do the table read.
- Break down the script scene by scene.
- Build visual references and emotional maps.
The more you handle before you’re on set, the more you can afford to explore, improvise, and discover in real time.
“Preparation buys you freedom on set.”
3. Take the “Bad Idea” Swing
A key pattern in Jordan’s choices is betting on material that doesn’t always look safe or obvious on paper. Roles and projects that feel intense, specific, or risky are often the ones that end up resonating the most.
For filmmakers, that means:
- Stop sandpapering your scripts into something generic.
- Start protecting the sharp edges — the personal details, the uncomfortable moments, the cultural specifics.
The project that scares you a little might be the one that actually breaks you out.
“If it feels too safe, it’s probably not big enough.”
4. One Hat at a Time (On Purpose)
Jordan is a modern multi-hyphenate — actor, producer, director — but he’s also strategic about when he wears which hat. On some projects, he leans fully into performance and trusts his team with everything else; on others, like Creed III, he steps behind the camera and takes on the entire vision.
Filmmakers can learn from that restraint:
- It’s okay to not direct, shoot, edit, and produce every single project.
- Choosing one primary role per project can sharpen the overall result.
Ask yourself on each film: “What’s the one role where I add the most value here?” Then structure the team accordingly.
“You don’t have to do everything on every film.”

5. Build an Ecosystem, Not Just a Résumé
Through his company and slate, Jordan is doing more than collecting credits. He’s building an ecosystem where the stories he cares about have a home — a pipeline for voices, genres, and perspectives that might not get space elsewhere.
That’s a roadmap for independent filmmakers and media founders:
- Create recurring spaces (a series, a channel, a festival, a label) where your sensibility is the default.
- Think beyond the single film; think in seasons, slates, and communities.
Your “ecosystem” might start as a simple recurring short-film series on your site, or a curated block at a festival. Over time, it becomes infrastructure.
“Don’t just book jobs. Build a world.”
6. Honor the Lineage You Stand On
When he accepted his Oscar, Jordan made a point to acknowledge the Black artists and legends who paved the way before him. That posture matters. It keeps ego in check and places today’s wins inside a longer lineage of struggle and progress.
Filmmakers can mirror that by:
- Citing their influences openly.
- Educating themselves on the history of the craft, especially in their own communities.
- Using their platforms to shine a light on peers and predecessors.
This isn’t just about being gracious; it’s about knowing you’re part of a story bigger than one awards season.
“Your win is a chapter, not the whole book.”
7. Let the Win Raise Your Standards
The most powerful thing about this moment is that it doesn’t feel like a finish line. Jordan’s energy reads as: this is motivation, not retirement. The recognition becomes pressure to work smarter, deeper, and more intentionally.
Filmmakers can turn every “win” — whether it’s an Oscar, a festival laurel, a viral clip, or a private email from someone impacted by your work — into fuel for the next draft and the next shoot.
Ask:
- What did I do well here that I can codify into my process?
- Where did I get lucky, and how can I replace luck with craft next time?
“Treat every win as a new baseline, not a peak.”
Why This Matters for Our Community
At Bolane Media, we see Michael B. Jordan’s Oscar moment not just as a celebrity headline, but as a roadmap for emerging storytellers — especially those building from underrepresented communities and independent spaces.
If you’re a filmmaker reading this:
- Identify one of these seven lessons.
- Apply it to your next project, not the hypothetical big one five years from now.
Then share your work with us. We want to see what you build.
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How to Find Your Voice as a Filmmaker

Every filmmaker aspires to create projects that are not only memorable but also uniquely their own. Finding your creative voice is a journey that requires self-reflection, bold choices, and an unwavering commitment to your vision. Here’s how to uncover your style, take risks, and craft original work that stands out.
1. Discovering Your Voice: Understanding Your Influences
Your unique voice begins with recognizing what inspires you.
- Step 1: Reflect on the themes, genres, or emotions that consistently draw your interest. Are you inspired by human resilience, surreal worlds, or untold histories?
- Step 2: Study the work of filmmakers you admire. Analyze what resonates with you—their use of color, pacing, or narrative techniques.
Tip: Combine what you love with your personal experiences to create a lens that only you can offer.
Example: Wes Anderson’s whimsical, symmetrical worlds stem from his love of classic storytelling and his unique visual style.
Takeaway: Start with what moves you, then add your personal touch.
2. Taking Creative Risks: Experiment and Evolve
To stand out, you must be willing to challenge conventions and explore new territory.
- Experimentation: Try unusual storytelling structures, such as non-linear timelines or silent sequences.
- Collaboration: Work with people outside your usual circle to gain fresh perspectives.
- Feedback: Screen your projects for trusted peers and be open to constructive criticism.
Example: Jordan Peele blended horror with social commentary in Get Out, creating a genre-defying film that captivated audiences.
Takeaway: Risks are an opportunity for growth, even if they don’t always succeed.
3. Telling Original Stories: Start with Authenticity
Original projects resonate when they stem from a place of truth.
- Draw from Experience: Incorporate elements of your own life, culture, or worldview into your stories.
- Explore the “Why”: Ask yourself why this story matters to you and how it connects with your audience.
- Avoid Trends: Focus on timeless narratives rather than chasing current fads.
Example: Greta Gerwig’s Lady Bird was deeply personal, based on her experiences growing up in Sacramento. The film’s authenticity made it universally relatable.
Takeaway: The more personal the story, the more it resonates.
4. Developing Your Style: Consistency Meets Creativity
Style is not just about visuals—it’s how you tell a story across all elements of filmmaking.
- Visual Language: Experiment with colors, lighting, and framing to create a distinct aesthetic.
- Narrative Voice: Develop consistent themes or motifs across your projects.
- Sound Design: Use music, sound effects, and silence to evoke specific emotions.
Example: Quentin Tarantino’s use of dialogue, pop culture references, and bold music choices makes his work instantly recognizable.
Takeaway: Your style should be intentional, evolving as you grow but always recognizable as yours.
5. Staying True to Yourself: Building Confidence in Your Vision
The filmmaking process is full of challenges, but staying true to your voice is essential.
- Stay Authentic: Trust your instincts, even if your ideas seem unconventional.
- Adapt Without Compromise: Be open to feedback but maintain your core vision.
- Celebrate Your Growth: View every project, successful or not, as a stepping stone in your creative journey.
Example: Ava DuVernay shifted from public relations to filmmaking, staying true to her voice in films like Selma and 13th, which focus on social justice.
Takeaway: Your voice evolves with every project, so embrace the process.
Conclusion: From Idea to Screen, Your Voice is Your Superpower
Finding your voice as a filmmaker takes time, courage, and commitment. By exploring your influences, taking risks, and staying true to your perspective, you’ll craft stories that not only stand out but also resonate deeply with your audience.
Bolanle Media is excited to announce our partnership with The Newbie Film Academy to offer comprehensive courses designed specifically for aspiring screenwriters. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to enhance your skills, our resources will provide you with the tools and knowledge needed to succeed in the competitive world of screenwriting. Join us today to unlock your creative potential and take your first steps toward crafting compelling stories that resonate with audiences. Let’s turn your ideas into impactful scripts together!
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