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Jessel Taank Calls Erin Lichy the “Pet Parrot” of Sai De Silva Amidst RHONY … on October 9, 2023 at 8:44 pm The Hollywood Gossip

During the Season 14 vacation on RHONY, we witnessed this cast’s worst conflict to date. But the season isn’t over.
On Sunday night’s episode, simmering tensions between Sai and Jessel began to boil over.
Jessel didn’t know what she’d done to upset her. Sai was oh so happy to fill her in.
In response, Jessel declared that she was so over this “mean girl s–t” … and also called Erin Sai’s “pet parrot.”
While isolating at home, Brynn Whitfield talks to her brother while recovering from COVID-19. (Bravo)
Not everyone was in a good place on Sunday’s episode of The Real Housewives of New York City.
Season 14, Episode 13 began with a revelation that beautiful Brynn Whitfield is sick with COVID. There is no justice in this world.
She was recovering and chatting with her brother from quarantine. Meanwhile, another Housewife would soon be off the board.
On RHONY Season 14, Episode 13, Jenna Lyons shared her plans to travel to Scotland. (Bravo)
A brand invited Jenna Lyons to fly out to Scotland to stay in the unreasonably beautiful countryside.
Before heading off, she discussed her plans with Jessel Taank.
This is when Jessel revealed that she and her husband, Pavit, had finally, finally boned. They had not since she last gave birth, and it was long overdue.
Jessel Taank excitedly shares that she and her husband have had sex. Finally. (Bravo)
After sharing her triumphant story of once again boning her husband, Jessel opened up about meeting up with Sai De Silva.
Now, she was late. Jessel says about 15 minutes late. Sai says about 35 minutes late. Erin Lichy, for unknown reasons, rounds this up to 40 minutes late.
Oh, yes. While Jessel tells Jenna what went down, including her guilt over being late, we hear Sai tell Erin her version.
Sai De Silva voices her complaints to friend Erin Lichy on The Real Housewives of New York City Season 14, Episode 13. (Bravo)
However, Sai’s issue has less to do with Jessel being late and more with Jessel’s attempt to connect with her.
Previously, Jessel brought up her alcoholic uncle. She lived with him, and he later died. Jessel figured that Sai would understand, given her experiences with her own mother.
Sai understood. But she felt deeply offended that Jessel would compare an uncle to a mother.
Erin Lichy immediately understands her friend’s issue during a phone conversation that is also a vent session. (Bravo)
Erin immediately understood Sai’s issue. To her, and to Sai, these were apples and oranges.
Meanwhile, Jenna told the confessional camera that Jessel wants connection with the cast members who don’t like her. The less connection that they give, the more that she wants. Sometimes, that’s human nature.
“But your mom is your mom,” Jenna reasoned to the camera. “And it’s really different than anyone else on the planet.” True!
Jenna Lyons offers an incredibly nuanced take on her castmates’ conflict during Season 14. (Bravo)
Jessel declared that she had said what she wanted to say. And she was prepared to give up on being friends with Sai.
Sai said that she “genuinely” didn’t care about that awkward situation anymore. She planned to move forward as if “nothing is wrong” to just avoid a needless confrontation.
Look, I share that instinct, but … sometimes, every now and then, it comes back to bite you. Sometimes, you need to address the issue before it spirals out of control.
“You don’t have to be best friends with everybody,” Jessel Taank reasons to the Season 14 confessional camera. (Bravo)
Sai and Erin also share some gossip about Jessel and Pavit. Pavit, as we know, says that he has tickets to Vietnam to rack up points.
That’s bizarre. It would be an odd choice at almost any economic bracket, but especially for rich people.
Both women seem to feel that Pavit is staying in Vietnam just long enough to “get into trouble.” Erin lists other issues in the marriage, including how long they went without sex. It paints a worrisome picture.
To the Season 14 confessional camera, Erin Lichy lists red flags about a castmate’s marriage. (Bravo)
Sai and Erin and their respective husbands meet up at a club, where Erin orders a flight of guacamole.
She does feel a little offended that Sai is constantly eating before Erin’s events. Okay but like … if you’re serving caviar and Pringles, you know that not everyone’s going to love it.
Jessel and her husband will be joining them. And both women task their husbands with finding out what’s up with Pavit’s weird flights to Vietnam.
Pavit Randhawa explains that he bought three tickets at a discount to facilitate his flights to Vietnam, which he’s doing for airline points. It does not make sense. (Bravo)
Apparently, Pavit has made multiple round trip flights to Vietnam … for miles. He also explains that he enjoys the experience of flying … and getting away from his family.
He says this right in front of Jessel. Meanwhile, she grows fairly defensive, and finds the questions intrusive.
Speaking of which, she and Sai have a heart-to-heart once the men go drinking.
Sai De Silva begins explaining her conflict with Jessel Taank while Erin Lichy observes. (Bravo)
“I was upset because you’re not understanding what we’re saying to you,” Sai explained. “It’s like, there’s no accountability and for anything. And you’re talking in circles. It’s like nothing is making sense.”
And there was more: “I’m sitting at the lunch and you bring up my mom. I’ll be honest with you. I don’t want to talk about my mom in that aspect.”
Jessel did not realize that she had offended her, or that the subject was off-limits. She wouldn’t have brought it up. Privately, however, Jessel feels angry that Sai thinks so little of her own story.
Sai De Silva and Jessel Taank had a heart-to-heart. It didn’t make things any easier. (Bravo)
“I am honestly blown away,” Jessel told the confessional camera.
“Being offended that I shared a story about my uncle who went through a really hard time and eventually passed away?” she remarked. “I have no words.”
The conversation goes on, with Sai accusing her of having “lied” about Pavit going to Vietnam because he couldn’t book his ticket yet due to closed borders.
Erin Lichy gossips about a pair of castmates’ conflict to Ubah Hassan. (Bravo)
“Seriously, I’m so over this mean girl s–t and it is mean girl s–t,” Jessel countered.
Sai disagreed: “Nobody is being a mean girl, Jessel. You make no sense when you speak. You cannot answer a question and you speak in circles.”
“I don’t get a chance Sai, the minute I try, this is what happens,” Jessel replied. She then gestured to an unaware Erin. “She, your f–king pet parrot [gets involved].”
Jessel Taank referred to a castmate as a “pet parrot” for involving herself consistently in drama. (Bravo)
“It’s just me and you talking right now,” Sai hit back. “She’s talking to Ubah. You f–king had me sitting there for 35 minutes and didn’t even have the decency to call me.”
“I didn’t even want to be at the lunch, it was a waste of my f–king time,” Sai declared.
“I’m actually so f–king over you,” Sai announced. “Let’s be done. I’m out. f—ing bitch.” As she got up and stormed away, Jessel called her a “Diva!”
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What Kanye’s ‘Father’ Says About Power, Faith, and Control

Kanye West’s “Father” video looks like a fever dream in a church, but underneath the spectacle it’s a quiet argument about who really runs the world. The altar isn’t just about God; it’s about every “father” structure that decides what’s true, who belongs, and who gets cast out.
The church as power, not comfort
The church in “Father” doesn’t behave like a safe, sacred space. It feels like a headquarters. The aisle becomes a catwalk for power: brides, a knight, a nun, a Michael Jackson double, astronauts, Travis Scott, all moving through the frame while Kanye mostly sits and watches. The room doesn’t change for them—they’re the ones being processed.
That’s the first big tell: this isn’t just about religion. It’s about systems. The church stands in for any institution that claims moral authority—governments, platforms, labels, churches, media—places where identity, status, and “truth” are negotiated behind the scenes. Faith is the language; control is the product.
Kanye as the unmanageable outsider
In this universe, Kanye isn’t the leader of the service. He’s a problem in the pews. The wildest scene makes that explicit: astronauts move in, pull off his mask, expose him as an “alien,” and carry him out. It’s funny, surreal—and brutal.
That moment plays like a metaphor for what happens when someone stops being useful to the system. If you’re too unpredictable, too loud, too off‑script, the institution finds a way to unmask you, label you, and remove you. But here’s the twist: once he’s gone, the spectacle continues. Travis still shines, the ceremony rolls on, the church keeps doing what the church does. The message is cold: no one is bigger than the machine.
Faith vs obedience
The title “Father” is doing triple duty: God, parent, and patriarchal authority. The video leans into a hard question—are we following something we believe in, or something we’re afraid to disappoint?
Inside this church, people don’t react when things get strange. A nun is handled like a criminal, cards burn, an alien is dragged away, and the room barely flinches. That’s not devotion, that’s conditioning. The deeper critique is that many of our modern “faiths”—political, religious, even fandom—have slid from relationship into obedience. You’re not invited to wrestle with meaning; you’re expected to sit down, sing along, and accept the script.
Who gets meaning, who gets sacrificed
The casting in “Father” feels like a visual ranking chart. The knight represents sanctioned force: power that’s old, armored, and legitimated by history. The cross and church setting evoke sacrifice: whose pain gets honored, whose story gets canonized, whose doesn’t. The Michael Jackson lookalike signals how even fallen icons remain useful as symbols long after their humanity is gone.
In that context, Kanye’s removal reads as a sacrifice that keeps the system intact. Take the problematic prophet out of the frame, keep the music, keep the ritual, keep the brand. The father‑system doesn’t collapse; it adjusts. Control isn’t loud in this world—it’s quiet, procedural, dressed like order.
A mirror held up to us
The most uncomfortable part of “Father” is that the congregation keeps sitting there. No one storms out. No one screams. The church absorbs aliens, icons, arrests, and weddings like it’s a normal Sunday. That’s where the video stops being about Kanye and starts being about us.
We’ve learned to scroll past absurdity and injustice with the same blank face as those extras in the pews. Faith becomes content. Outrage becomes engagement. Power becomes invisible. “Father” takes all of that and crushes it into one continuous shot, asking a bigger question than “Is Kanye back?”
It’s asking: in a world where power wears holy clothes, faith is filmed, and control looks like normal life, who is your father really—and are you sure you chose him?
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The machine isn’t coming. It’s aleady the room.

The machine isn’t coming. It’s already in the room.
Picture this: you spend two years writing a script. You hustle funding, build a team, reach out to casting. Then somewhere inside a studio, a software platform analyzes your concept against fifteen years of box office data and decides—before a single human executive reads page one—that your film is too risky to greenlight.
This isn’t a Black Mirror episode. This is Hollywood in 2026.
The Numbers Don’t Lie
The generative AI market inside media and entertainment just crossed $2.24 billion and is projected to hit $21.2 billion by 2035—a 25% annual growth rate. Studios like Warner Bros. are running platforms like Cinelytic, a decision-intelligence tool that predicts box office performance with 94–96% accuracy before a single dollar of production money moves.
Netflix estimates its AI recommendation engine saves the company $1 billion per year just in subscriber retention. Meanwhile, over the past three years, more than 41,000 film and TV jobs have disappeared in Los Angeles County alone.
That’s not a trend. That’s a restructuring.

The Moment That Changed Everything
In February 2026, ByteDance’s AI generator Seedance 2.0 produced a hyper-realistic deepfake video featuring the likenesses of Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, and Leonardo DiCaprio. It went viral instantly. SAG-AFTRA called it “blatant infringement.” The Human Artistry Campaign called it “an attack on every creator in the world.”
Then came Tilly Norwood—a fully AI-generated actress created by production company Particle 6—who was seriously considered for agency representation in Hollywood. The first synthetic human to knock on that door.
Matthew McConaughey didn’t mince words at a recent industry town hall. He looked at Timothée Chalamet and said:
“It’s already here. Own yourself. Voice, likeness, et cetera. Trademark it. Whatever you gotta do, so when it comes, no one can steal you.”
James Cameron told CBS the idea of generating actors with prompts is “horrifying.” Werner Herzog called AI films “fabrications with no soul.” Guillermo del Toro said he would “rather die” than use generative AI to make a film.
But here’s the thing—not everyone agrees.
The Indie Filmmaker’s Double-Edged Sword
At SXSW 2026, indie filmmakers made something clear in a packed panel: they don’t want AI to make their movies. They want AI to “do their dishes.”
That’s the real conversation happening at the ground level.
Independent filmmaker Brad Tangonan used Google’s AI suite to create Murmuray—a deeply personal short film he says he never could have made without the tools. Not because he lacked talent, but because he lacked budget. He wrote it. He directed it. The AI executed parts of his vision he couldn’t afford to shoot.
In Austin, an independent filmmaker built a 7-minute short in three weeks using AI-generated video—a project that would have taken 3–4 months and cost ten times more the traditional way. That’s the version of this story studios don’t want you focused on.
At CES 2026, Arcana Labs announced the first fully AI-generated short film to receive a SAG-approved contract—a milestone that proves AI-assisted production can operate inside union protections when done right.
The Fight Coming This Summer
The WGA contract expires May 1, 2026. SAG-AFTRA’s expires June 30. AI is the headline issue at the bargaining table—and the last time these two unions went to war with studios over it, Hollywood shut down for 118 days.
SAG is expected to push the “Tilly Tax”—a fee studios pay every time they use a synthetic actor—directly inspired by Tilly Norwood’s emergence. The WGA already prohibits studios from handing writers AI-generated scripts for a rewrite fee. Now they want bigger walls.
Meanwhile, the Television Academy’s 2026 Emmy rules now include explicit AI language: human creative contribution must remain the “core” of any submission. AI assistance is allowed—but the Academy reserves the right to investigate how it was used.
The Oscars and Emmys are essentially saying: the robot didn’t get nominated. The human did.
What This Means for You
If you’re an indie filmmaker between 25 and 45, you’re operating in the most disruptive creative environment since the camera went digital. AI can cut your post-production time by up to 40%. It can help you pre-visualize shots, generate temp scores, clean up audio, and pitch your project with a sizzle reel you couldn’t afford six months ago.
But the machine that helps you make your film is the same machine that could make studios decide they don’t need you to make theirs.
Producer and director Taylor Nixon-Smith said it best: “Entertainment, once a sacred space, now feels like it’s in a state of purgatory.”
The question isn’t whether AI belongs in your workflow. It’s whether you’re the one holding the wheel—or whether the wheel is slowly being handed to an algorithm that has never once felt what it means to have a story only you can tell.
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This scene almost broke him. And changed his career.

As Sinners surges into the cultural conversation, it’s impossible to ignore the force of Christian Robinson’s performance. His “let me in” door scene has become one of the film’s defining moments—raw, desperate, and unforgettable. But the power of that scene makes the most sense when you understand the journey that brought him there.
From church play to breakout roles
Christian’s path didn’t begin on a Hollywood set. It started in a Brooklyn church, when a woman named Miss Val kept asking him to be in a play.
“I told her no countless times,” he remembers. “Every time she saw me, she asked me and she wouldn’t stop asking me.”
He finally said yes—and everything changed.
“I did it once and I fell in love,” he says. That one performance pushed him into deep research on the craft, a move to Atlanta, and years of unglamorous work: training, auditioning, stacking small wins until he booked his first roles and then Netflix’s Burning Sands, where many met him as Big Country.
By the time Sinners came along, he wasn’t a newcomer hoping to get lucky. He was an actor who had quietly built the muscles to carry something bigger.
The door scene: life or death
On The Roselyn Omaka Show, Christian shared the directing note Ryan Coogler gave him before filming the door scene:
“He explained to me, ‘I need you to bang on this door as if your life depended on it. Like it’s a matter of life and death.’”
Christian didn’t just turn up the volume; he reached deeper.
“This film speaks a lot about our ancestors,” he told Roselyn Omaka. “So I tried to give a glimpse of what our ancestors would’ve experienced if someone or something that could bring ultimate destruction was after them. How hard would they bang? How loud would they scream to try to get into a place safely? That’s what I intended to convey in that moment.”
That inner picture—life or death, ancestors, ultimate destruction—is why the scene hits like more than a plot beat. It feels like generational memory breaking through a single frame.
Living through a “history” moment in real time
When Roselyn asks what he’s processing as Sinners takes off, Christian admits he’s still inside the wave.
“I’ve never experienced a project with this level of reception and energy and momentum,” he says. “People having their theories and breaking it down and doing reenactments… it’s never been a time like this in my career.”
He’s careful not to over‑define something that’s still unfolding: “There’s no way to give an accurate description of what I’m experiencing while I’m still experiencing it.” He knows he’ll need distance to name it fully.
But he can name one thing: “If I could gather any adjective to describe it, it would be gratefulness. I’m grateful.”
He also feels the weight of what this film might mean long-term:
“To know that I was there for a large amount of the time it was being brought to life, and a part of what the internet is saying will be history… this is something that I’m inspired by—to shoot for the stars in whatever passion rooted in creativity that you possess.”
Music, joy, and the man behind the moment
Christian talks about the music of Sinners as another force that shaped him. The score wasn’t playing nonstop; it showed up in key moments.
“The music was played when it was necessary to be played. But when it was played, it resonated,” he says. Hearing Miles Caton’s songs early, before the world did, he remembers thinking, “This is going to be magical… This is one of the ones right here.”
For all the heaviness of the story, he also brought levity. He laughs about being the jokester on set—singing Juvenile and Lil Wayne in the New Orleans hair and makeup trailer, trying to make everyone smile during Essence Fest weekend. “I’m a fun guy,” he says. “I love to see people laugh and have a good time.”
PATHS for us and opening doors
What might be most revealing is how seriously Christian takes his responsibility off screen. In 2015, sitting in his apartment outside Atlanta, he felt God tell him to start a nonprofit called PATHS.
“I heard from God and he told me to start a nonprofit called PATHS,” he recalls. At first, he and his peers went into schools and inner‑city communities to teach young people “the many different paths to entering the entertainment industry”—not just the craft, but “the practical steps and establishing yourself, like the business of an actor… a stunt person, hair and makeup, etc.”
When the pandemic hit and school visits stopped, he pivoted to a podcast and digital platform: “Fine, I’ll do it,” he laughs. Now PATHS for us lets “anyone anywhere that desires to be in entertainment hear from credible entertainment industry professionals on how they got to where they are and how you can do the same.”
Working on Sinners confirmed that he should go all in: “It just gave me exactly what I needed to know that I should pour my all into it.”
Honoring a history-making moment
As Sinners takes off, Christian keeps coming back to one word: gratefulness—for the film, for the collaborators, for the chance to be part of something people are calling historic.
At Bolanle Media, we see more than a viral scene. We see an artist whose craft is rooted in faith, ancestors, and hard-earned discipline; whose joy lifts the rooms he works in; and whose platform is opening real paths for others.
This scene almost broke him. And changed his career.
Now, as the world catches up, Christian Robinson is using that breakthrough not just to walk through new doors—but to help the next generation find theirs.
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